Hi there! We are newbies too and in our 50's. So far we have not felt out of place. The swinging community seems to be very nice and accepting of all. We have been to the Ozone and M4. Both clubs had people there that were of different ages, size and shapes. Try to go on couples nights rather than singles night at the beginning. Even though there are very respectful single gentlemen out there, the younger single males were way into our personal space. Good luck and enjoy!!
kandd