New couple looking for help

6 Nov 2012

My wife and I have fantasized about her being shared by another man for years, and we're finally looking to take it further than just talk in the bedroom. We'd love to go to a club where she can dance and get close to another guy while I sit back and watch on our initial time out. We're both around forty, and still in decent shape, but we're afraid we'll stick out like sore thumbs in some of the clubs in Toronto. Can anyone recommend a club in the Toronto area where we'd feel comfortable and meet people who don't need to take it off the dance floor our first night out? Also, she loves the idea of theme nights. Anything where she could wear a mask as she is still nervous about making this a reality. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Even better, we'd love to chat with anyone that would be interested in answering some of the many questions we have (even after reading the fantastic "Guide to Swinging" on this site). Cheers.

7 Nov 2012

If only you guys were closer, people in your area are so lucky to have so many clubs nearby.

8 Nov 2012

We went to oasis aqua lounge last week it was a nice relaxed crowd, and you could have as much fun as you wanted, no one cared what anyone else was up to.

22 Dec 2013

Hi there! We are newbies too and in our 50's. So far we have not felt out of place. The swinging community seems to be very nice and accepting of all. We have been to the Ozone and M4. Both clubs had people there that were of different ages, size and shapes. Try to go on couples nights rather than singles night at the beginning. Even though there are very respectful single gentlemen out there, the younger single males were way into our personal space. Good luck and enjoy!! kandd