Well all I can say is I have known Altek for many years , he’s the real deal… He’s a first class guy, very respected in the swinging community… We have been swinging for 20 years , so with that said there is a lot of work that goes into setting up a party … We have had a few parties of our own and know if you invite 20 people and only 15 show up it really can screw up the dynamics of the party….. so he is just trying to keep the number ratio between couples and singles … The single guys should think of them selves very lucky to get an invite actually because most private parties do not include single guy …