And what about those of us that where removed by the previous new owner lol. We did nothing other than express our opinion and were suddenly and without notice removed and blocked. We had paid a lifetime membership and the owner chose not to honor that membership. Now, we still appear to be blocked.

Quote by Reallyfuncpl

Ummm we didn't ask we just saw the thread and so we made a comment. We still like CD. How you feel isn't going to change that and we're happy It's getting busy again. It's obvious how you feel by your multiple posts you don't have to make a comment everytime someone says something. We saw you did that on another site as well. Let it go already.

Lol, comments are what forums are based on. If no one comments then the forum becomes stagnant. Sorry I have offended you by doing exactly what forums are intended to be used for. I am happy you are enjoying CD. We were not given the chance to enjoy it. Hopefully, the new owners don't remove you from the site without giving you the opportunity to remove your info or pics. Have a lovely day.

Quote by Reallyfuncpl

It's getting busy again so that's good.

It is getting busy temporarily while they allow the OG members to actually use the site. Once they stop allowing that it will be a ghost town again. Plus, how can you trust people that have just closed many many accounts with no explanation nor giving the owners of those accounts the opportunity to remove their information or pictures. Who knows what awful stuff they are going to do with people's personal information. This community is built on trust and they have lost the trust of the community. There are several facebook groups that are each several hundred people strong that have fled CD because they no longer trust the owners. Once you lose that trust, you will never get it back.

Quote by Reallyfuncpl

CD is getting busy again.

It's only busy now because they finally decided to open things up to the OG members. Once they stop that, it will be a ghost town again. Plus, when they are constantly denying people access to their accounts without any notice nor explanation, it becomes extremely tough to trust them anymore. We were booted out and not allowed to remove our information nor photos..............which belong to us. Lord only knows what they could do with peoples info. They are no longer trustworthy and folks will figure that out soon enough.

So now, simply because i questioned the owners decision to now open up the site to all former members, my profile has been deleted. They have not bothered to return my photos, which are my property. Nor have they bothered to offer up an explanation. Way to go new owners, that's how you gain user trust.............not.

Quote by Easytimes1111

For couples only, NO single men as you will be screened, we do have a fb group that is currently still searchable.

It’s a great way to connect in Ontario!

Search Desire Cafe ;) hope to see many of you there!

I have been trying to find that group on fb and it does not come up. We would love to join it but can't seem to find it.

Quote by Ronmarie

I have nothing to do with the site see how I blocked single guys yellow and reds pics only trial members cannot see past pay wall If I do decide with Marie to become full members too early for us. I just want more choice. Marie was not too happy when they approved me topless and her breasts were moved to reds. If you do not like the site your issue . If the site wants to go class not crass fine with us the community could use this choice .if that is their vision. I was just content for the pay wall for privacy why we took pics off previous to the new ownership. Was too popular too local,

Except that they have lost any sense of "class". To retain that they would need a site that at least looks like it was developed in this century, not in the 1990's.

Quote by Starfaces1234

lol I actually put up a fairly lengthy post this morning on cd critical of the new ownership and the direction they’ve taken a once pretty vibrant community (basically decimated)… some people read it and visited our now empty profile… I revisit the site and the post has disappeared and I can’t reply on the forums anymore (they cut my two week grace period free trial immediately). Kinda glad their investment into the site has totally backfired. Also glad I saved the post.

Lol, I had the exact same thing happen. No longer able to post or use the chat room. Every time anyone says something they don't like they simply delete them. Pretty soon they are going to run out of people to delete. Besides, if they are going to attempt to run a service business, they need to get a little thicker skin and actually listen to their members that are posting constructive criticism.

Quote by Ronmarie

I was even impressed with the single guy pics I Have seen in the yellows, very classy no stupid dick pics.

Lol too bad nothing else on the site is worth anything lol. Can't even effectively block single males lol. I am beginning to believe you must be on the payroll for that site, most others have nothing good to say about it and most of the long time big supporters have withdrawn their support. Especially when they started removing some peoples accounts simply because they did not agree with them.

Quote by Ronmarie

Looks like other couple are using their imagination, turning into a cut above forum.

The CD forum is a cut above?????? Really. There is maybe one post a day on there, not sure how that can be seen as a cut above. But to each their own i guess.

Quote by Jacy

We started a new group on FB called Desire Cafe. You can search for it and so far it's almost 700 members in just over a month. Couples and single ladies only. Not a lot of notifications so your feeds aren't being cluttered by posts and people looking for real connections !

I have searched for it and it is not showing up. Getting a lot of restaurant and "cafe" stuff lol.

As others have suggested it might be nice to have a thread where folks from CD could find each other and reconnect. We have not, as yet, removed our profile from CD but we will not be paying for the site. We previously paid a lifetime membership and that should have been honored, like they did here on SH. The worst part of what is happening to CD is the complete and total censorship. If the new owners can't handle what the members have to say, maybe an online lifestyle group was not the place for them to invest their money.

Lol CD has gone back to full on censoring of what gets said in the forums there. They have even gone so far as to remove member initiated polls. Do they not understand that the same things are being said in other forums and that it simply makes them look immature and childish by removing and ignoring the members insight. Just imagine how they are going to treat members in the chat room, if it ever gets enough members to warrant a chat room lol.

Quote by Ronmarie

Your right noticed a few glitches suspect the long term plan is to make a premium site with a yearly subscription to keep the deter frivolous memberships at bay. Using Tim's site as a base to build It got popular for a reason.

That may be but they made a fatal mistake. They removed what made the site successful.............the members.

Quote by fun4her

If you are referring to the "Has become a member" on the home page newsfeed, then just ignore it. Those are not full members. There is yet another glitch as it relates to that where it seems to reload and list new members at random. I have seen our profile listed there a bunch of times. Maybe it's each new time you have to log in. Don't know. You can search for full members. Currently there are 31. Two are American and one of those two is Bailoxi from M4.

No, I am referring to the members search where you can ask it to only return "full members" in the search. There are two new members, one from "Beverly Hills" lol whose name is Test 3 and is a 25 year old single male and one from Sandeep, yet another single male, from Tampa Florida. Odd that all of a sudden there are a lot of American members from the deep south wanting to be a member of a dead Canadian site lol.

Has anyone else noticed the fake "full members" accounts that are now popping up? They are from the states and it would appear that they "joined" weeks ago but did not appear as members until weeks later. What a joke, who do they think they are fooling lol. How many fake profiles do they think they can create to improve their numbers lol.