Well, I'm married we've been together 15 years married for 5 depending on when you read this it's probably changed. we are a poly couple who primarily enjoys the company of people who want quality positive relationships. I want the people around me to know that i'll show up stand up and be there when they need me even if it's inconvenient- i expect the same in return. My husband doesn't chat on this site, not his thing.

I have an amazing son who is 14 months and the center of my entire world, you will find me talking about him often in chat unapologetically. If you are a couple and you are interested I would only be willing to meet you as a couple, i like even numbers and i don't want to be a couples unicorn... it gets to messy.

If you are a single male and you message me I may or may not answer ...here are some pro tips "hey" "you look sexy" "what you doing" "how you doing" never going to get a response from me, maybe you care maybe you don't. 

If you are a woman who is interested (yes I am bi) feel free to send me a message as well with substance.

I am into BDSM, i don't hide it and recently wear a collar from my husband 24/7.  Now that all the boring tedious stuff is out of the way..
I like people who are laid back because i'm not and i have a mind that is always thinking about 100 things at once. I like people who have a calming energy and persona. It's not all about sex for me.. disappointing i know. I'm not the kinda girl that is gonna fuck in a car or a sleazy hotel room.. nothing wrong with it just not for me. I'm not interested in FWB, i'm looking for a relationship where all people are genuine and care about each other.

I love to laugh I have a dry sarcastic sense of humor, I like to fish, I like to camp swim go on trails watch hockey baseball and football. I am introvert and I don't interpret what people say I take what they say literally. So for me, if you don't mean what you say it will come off as confusing. My husband says i'm terrible at filling these things out and that the way I phrase things are intimidating and make a person less interested. Intimidated yet? ha! 

Live long and prosper.