We are fairly new to the lifestyle but do have a little experience. We are fun and looking for open-minded, like-minded couples. People that we can enjoy a few laughs and drinks with are our ideal couple. We want to get to know you a little bit before hitting the sheets. We are willing to play on the first date though, if things are going well.

We do have young kids and as a result, we need couples who can be patient with our sometimes hectic schedule (i.e. finding childcare etc.) It's always nice to find people who are also in the family mind-set, helps us to relate a little bit better. This is definitely a hobby for us and not something we are able to do every weekend or with every spare moment that we have but so far we have been enjoying ourselves.

In terms of looks, we are not perfect. We think we are fairly attractive but if you are looking for a super fit, tall, lean couple that is not us. The Mrs. does work out but has a few extra pounds. We are not super picky when it comes to looks- a great personality can go a long way. But there definitely needs to be an attraction.