Wow @lemongrass that was hot
Quote by jSquared101
I think people expect too much from sites like this. Not everyone who turns you down, ignores your message, or fails to meet is fake or a pic collector. Some are new and nervous. Some are just checking the place out. Some are looking for online chat and nothing more. Some are super busy people and have very little free time. Sometimes people think they want this, but then they chicken out. Sometimes there is a miscommunication between partners. Sometimes vanilla responsibilities get in the way.
Not everyone is using the site the same way. The sooner people understand that, the happier they will be.
Personally, I use the site to look up profiles and contact people I've already met in real life. And I've met a LOT of people by getting out there in real life.
well said