we are married over 25 years and secure with each other. She has some bi experience and would like to do it again. I see my role as fulfilling some of her fantasies (and mine). Our best time to play is mid week and we like to play outdoors and we have a very secluded place. The senario that turns her on the most is her tied to a bed and a women comes in and starts to eat as she is blindfolded and notices a 2nd person.