We have thought about this for years - decided to make a profile and put our toes in the water.  We love each other but need a little extra as its kind of boring in bed.  Boring has changed into wife can't get wet and husband can't stay hard.  Wife needs NRE [new relationship energy] to get excited.  We last made love December 31, 2016 agreeing to go a whole year without sex with each other to see if that would fire things up.  We still kiss, cuddle and share a bed.  Wife gets wet solo masturbating fantasizing about others and husband gets hard likewise.  Wife would like to experience another man for sure and possibly a woman.  Husband would like to experience another woman but is also interested in exploring with a bi-male.