Sorry to say my wife passed two years ago , that’s why we haven’t been on here . I’m on my own now and find it very hard to stay in this life style , single mails area dime a dozen and no one seams to want a single male . I’m trying to find a woman that’s into this life style , I love it and can’t go with out being in it . I wish everyone the best . I will still be on here trying to find people . You never know .