We’re new to the lifestyle and moving cautiously as we navigate unfamiliar territory, explore our true desires, and find our pace. We value honesty and open communication, both with ourselves and others, as we learn and grow together.

Here’s where we stand:

Single males: Not interested unless we initiate contact.

Smokers: Not a match, but we’re 420-friendly.

Heteroflex boundaries: he’s soft/bottom, she’s potentially vers (TBD, depending on the vibe—and maybe a little liquid courage!).

We’re in our late 30s, with an empty nest in sight. High school sweethearts, married for over 20 years, and preparing to explore this next chapter together. While we’re lifestyle beginners, we’re looking for like-minded, down-to-earth couples who value real connections, respect, and discretion. Hygiene, self-care, and mutual attraction (mental and physical) are priorities for us, though we’re realistic and grounded.

We’re excited to explore, learn, and grow together - with the right people. Thanks for taking the time to check us out, and we hope to connect with others who share our values and sense of adventure!