I'm a bi guy who has been very happily married for sometime now and very faithful so no longer playing. i join the chat room from time to time to live vicariously through hearing and seeing what all you horny people are up to. Not looking to meet or anything as i am with "the one" but thanks for taking a look at my profile. I ALWAYS go commando and I'm a closet nudist - whenever i get a chance to get naked i always do, sadly this only ever happens at home but maybe one day I'll get out more and get naked. I'm very friendly and approachable and always up for a chat so if you see me in the chatroom feel free to whisper me anytime ;-)

[b]Blog excerpt November '13 - My first time, with a guy...[/b] I often get asked about the first time i hooked up with a guy and whilst im happy to give an abbreviated version of the story in chat, i thought i'd blog a full write up as it makes for an ok read (i think)

As i mentioned in an earlier blog, it was the internet and chatrooms that really got me to explore my curiosity back in the early zeroes as i fondly call them - I have a strong jealousy of the generation after me who grew up with the internet as an every day entity that is taken for granted, i probably would have been a lot more experienced a lot sooner had the internet been the monster that it is now when i was a teenager, but i digress.

So i have never been promiscuous nor have i ever been the kind of guy who will just fuck anything with a pulse, its not that im picky or that i have unrealistic expectations of the people i would like to sleep with i just find that if i dont hit it off personally with people i have no real interest in getting them naked!

Fortunately I did hit it off with a guy online one summer in my early twenties and after chatting online regularly for a week or two he finally propositioned me and said [i]"lets meet in person, no strings. you dont have to do anything, let me show you what its all about and if you dont want to do anything to me its not a problem!" [/i]this was an offer that i felt it was too good to turn down so i asked when he was free for such a meet to which he replied [i]"NOW!"[/i]

And so it was, that i found myself in my car at 1am on a Tuesday driving twenty minutes down the road to pick up a guy id never met before at a pre-arranged meeting place for the sole purpose of having my cock sucked (he told me in advance that he would very much like to blow me and i was only too willing to receive!). It was quite a strange feeling i was very very excited but a little bit scared at the same time - i had one night stands in the past but this was nothing like that as it was all so pre-arranged. There was no chase or seduction it was simply a matter of driving to get the guy and finding somewhere to do it - the rest of it was a sure thing!

I pulled over at our meeting point (a bus stop near his house!) and he jumped straight in and that was it, a handshake and a[i]"hows it going"[/i] and off we went - only we had no idea where we were going! Neither of us had actually thought about where we were actually going to get it on, so what followed was a hilarious hour of driving to and from secluded spots that we each knew or thought of til we found someplace we were comfortable with that wouldn't result in us getting busted. At one point we pulled in to a remote layby down a country lane only to find another couple had already had the same idea and pulled up and started going at it before we got there!

Finally we found a farmers field with a missing gate and a high hedge line so i pulled the car in and parked behind the bushes so we were totally unsighted from the road. I killed the lights and the car was black so anybody passing wouldn't have known we were there - my only concern was a house in the distance which had a direct view of us but by that point i really didnt care i was so horny/nervous/excited/scared!!!

[i]"Lets get in the back"[/i] said Joe (that was his name by the way) it was a warm summer night but it had rained that afternoon and the ground was still damp so i was only to happy to agree. At the back of my mind i was worried about getting the car back out of the wet field once we were done but that was something i was prepared to deal with later!

I gotta say, unlike me, he had come prepared for the event all he had on was a pair of shorts, a tshirt and some flip flops oon his feet. I on the other hand in my excitement had not put a single thought into clothing and had literally turned off my computer grabbed my keys and ran to the car! I got into the back and as i sat down i turned to see Joe was totally naked and already had a massive hard on!

I have to say he had a beautiful body very thin but toned and naturally hairless except for a nice neat dark bush and his cock was also beautiful, about the same size as me but slightly thicker with a nice sized head, he had a natural upward curve too which seemed to make him look even harder!!

[i]"So the first rule of outdoor sex is wear as little as reasonably possible!"[/i] he said as he sat next to me which was funny cos i had jeans on, socks, sneakers and a tshirt AND a sweatshirt.[i] "its going to take a lot longer to get you naked - [/i][i]you wont make this mistake again will you!" [/i]he said as I lifted myself up so he could get my jeans off. As always i was going commando so my cock sprang straight up as my jeans came down -[i] "oh but the underwear you didn't put on!" [/i]was his last comment before he grabbed my throbbing cock and blew my mind!!!!

Almost immediately i grabbed his cock and instinctively matched the rhythm he was using on mine which was the first thing that blew my mind because i had a cock in my hand and i was tugging but it wasn't my own cock the sensation was amazing and i couldn't take my eyes off it i was mesmerized!!!

I don't know how long this went on for before i surprised even myself by saying[i] "i gotta try sucking that cock right now!"[/i] and with that i threw myself face first into his lap! I kept a firm grip of the base of his cock and with no hesitation took it into my mouth and sucked slowly and firmly all the way up to the tip of his cock and back down again - feeling his cock throbbing against my tongue was the second thing that blew my mind!

Ill be honest as my head bobbed up and down on his cock all that was going through my mind was [i]"this is fucking amazing i cant believe im doing this - this fucking amazing i cant believe im doing this!"[/i] over and over. It all just came so easily (no pun intended) I had genuinely thought i would lose my nerve and bottle it or at the very least just get an awkward handjob and drive the guy home again but here i was sucking his cock like it was something i'd been doing all my life - and the more i sucked the more he gasped with pleasure the more i wanted to suck!!!!

He broke the silence by telling me he thought i was a natural but he had agreed to meet me specifically to give me head and that exactly what he intended to do. He pushed me back and worked his way down my body with his tongue and just when i thought i couldn't get any harder my cock started to strain as he got closer to it. I couldn't take it anymore and instinctively started to push my hips towards his mouth but he continued to tease me with his tongue and work my balls with his mouth i was so glad id remembered to shave everywhere that day as i was so smooth and sensitive [i]"youre going to make me beg aren't you!" [/i]i gasped to which he just laughed as he lifted my legs up from behind my knees - i wasn't really sure what he was going to do and I'm not even sure how he managed to get down there so easily in such a tight space but nevertheless he buried his tongue in my ass and gave me the best rimming I've ever had and it wasn't just a token gesture either he really worked me good with his tongue, flicking and swirling around, teasing my hole then pushing his tongue as far inside me as he could which was exactly the point where he blew my mind for the third time!

He then started to work his way back up slowly, working his tongue around my silky smooth balls, the feeling of his hot tongue was amazing as he gently sucked my balls one at a time and even managed to get both of them in his mouth at once which always impresses me as they are quite a mouthful even if i do say so myself! Then he made his way up my shaft with his tongue slowly, i thought i was going to die if he didn't suck it soon and again all the while in my head I'm thinking [i]"this is fucking amazing i cant believe im doing this - this fucking amazing i cant believe im doing this!"[/i] finally after flicking his tongue around the head of my cock which felt amazing he slowly took it in his mouth sucking firmly and then proceeded to take what felt like the majority of my cock in his mouth all the while keeping a constant pressure, it was without doubt the best build up to a blowjob id had in my entire life!

This guy really knows what he's doing! i thought. In truth I'd meant to tell him myself that i thought he really knew what he was doing but he was working me so good i couldn't even speak. This guy who I had met online two weeks before and was now naked in the back of my car with me was giving me without doubt [i][b]THE BEST BLOWJOB ID EVER HAD - NO CONTEST[/b][/i].

He started to build up the speed gradually from a slow firm up and down motion to what had now become a quick steady pace all the while though he kept a perfect rhythm, the guy was like a pendulum almost perfect up and down motions with no let up in the amount of suction i couldn't believe how good it was. I'd had great head in the past but this was on a completely different level - normally with my ex girlfriends they'd be going at it for a long time to get a result but i knew there and then that this guy was going to make me blow my stack in no time at all! I think he could read my mind because precisely at that point he started to speed up a bit but at the top of each stroke he rolled his tongue around the head of my cock before going back down again. He'd stopped massaging my balls and now had a firm grip on the base of my shaft and i knew he was going for the home run as he timed all his movements perfectly.

I started to breathe more and more heavily as I could feel the orgasm building up slowly but i knew it was coming soon. I kept gasping for air as he worked me up into a frenzy. I couldn't keep still, i was gripping at the back of the headrest, at the seat in front, at the seat below me I was in heaven, i don't know how he did it but he kept me [i]just  [/i]at the point of ecstasy for what seemed like an eternity before i finally exploded [i]"oh my god"[/i]  i gasped as i let go in a monumental fashion, desperately gasping for air as i pumped hot cum over and over into his mouth. How i didn't blow the back of this guys head off i have no idea as i had one of the most explosive orgasms i've ever had in my life. Amazingly he didn't stop but just kept on going never once releasing my cock form his grip and he swallowed every last drop of my hot cum, truth be told though i don't think he would have had a choice even he wanted it must have fired straight down the back of his throat!

He slowed the pace right down but kept sucking gently the whole time and went back to massaging my balls, and amazingly he didnt stop working my cock until i had completely lost my erection at which point he went back to licking my shaft and balls before finally sitting up with a huge smile on his face. My mind was blown finally for the fourth time!

[i]"Yeah you've never been sucked off by a guy before i can tell"[/i]  he said with a grin. I was gushing with compliments I couldnt stop telling him how amazing it was and how much of an expert he was which of course he was very flattered by but he had this kind of knowing confidence which really turned me on, he knew he gave amazing head and didn't need me to tell him that!

I hadn't realised at first, but as soon as he had sat up i had instinctively started stroking his cock again. Upon noticing that i was tugging gently on his cock i leaned forward to start returning the favour but unbelievably he stopped me [i]"no i don't want you to do anything" [/i]he said[i] "i promised you a no-strings meet and that's exactly what i want this to be" [/i]I tried to insist but he just wasn't having it, as far as he was concerned i had just had the perfect introduction to guy on guy action and he didn't want to take it any further and risk ruining it, which i kind of puzzled me but his selflessness was staggering, "[i]truth be told"[/i]  he said [i]"i just fucking love sucking cock!"[/i]

And so that was it! We got dressed and back into the front of the car, we chatted a bit while we waited for the very steamy windows to clear and we chatted all the way home as i drove, in the end even though i didn't return the favour it was an amazing night, a very special night in fact that i remember so fondly and vividly. The only sad thing is i never saw him again. We spoke a few times online but never managed to arrange another meet and eventually after a few more weeks we lost touch completely, i don't really know why but it just wasn't meant to happen a second time with Joe which I'm fine with as it meant there was nothing holding me back now and it was just the first of many times i would enjoy being with another guy and in time i would also learned that i too[i] "...just fucking love sucking cock!"[/i]

[b]Blog excerpt October '13 - "Why Lengthy_magic?"[/b]

Its the question i answer the most, most of the time!

"So why are you called lengthy_magic?"

Now I'm a bit apprehensive about writing a blog about why I call myself lengthy_magic cos im worried it will halve the number of online chats but its October, its time for a new blog update and i cant think of  anything else to talk about so here it goes....

So it all dates back to the earlier days of the internet or should i say more accurately the late nineties early zeroes. Back in the day i was a big fan of MSN Chat, I used to spend a lot time chatting to other bi or curious or similarly confused guys and it really helped me to learn a lot about myself. I was genuinely gutted when it closed down as its left a gap in my online social life that I've never really managed to replace. Anyway on there my nickname was Nobodyknowsimbi, (say hi if you remember me!) which was great because in real life nobody actually does know I'm bi and obviously if I'm in a gay/bi/curious or whatever chatroom obviously everybody knows I'm bi - see what i did there? Clever guy right!

So anyway once MSN closed its doors (for understandable reasons) i was genuinely gutted and left hunting around for places to hang out online and needed to create new profiles for the various sites that i discovered and I wanted to keep everything consistent across all sites and come up with something unique that was easily recognisable as being me even if i was logged in to multiple websites. I spent a lot of time trying to come up with something that wasn't a pain in the ass to type - nobodyknowsimbi is fine when sober but after a few beers its gets a bit trickier to get it right first time :-)

So i ruled out the usual stuff that had the play on the word bi like "bithebi" "bifornow" "biguy69" that sort of thing (sorry if you're reading this and you have those nicknames!)  but I really couldnt think of anything that was original, catchy or indeed likeable. Nobodyknowsimbi was easy, i was up very late one night and Everybody Knows This Is Nowhere by Neil Young was playing in the background and i just made up a personal play on words and stuck to it but now I wanted a change but it wasn't going to be as easy as i thought.

In real life my nickname at the time actually was Magic and i kind of wanted something that hinted at my real life self but obviously didnt give it away completely - just enough to kind of make people wonder you know. That was my starting point from which I was going to hang my nickname around basically

"So why lengthy then?" your probably asking if you haven't gotten bored and gone off to look at naked people already!

Contrary to the general assumption it has nothing to do with the size of my cock, although yes obviously i knew that by using the word it would attract a certain amount of attention in chatrooms etc but i figured

that wasn't necessarily a bad thing you know. Also at the time and right up until recently i had an issue where despite having a lot of sex with long term steady girlfriends i found it difficult to orgasm. This

didn't bother me as such because i could play it to my own advantage, if i had sex three four or more times in a day I would cum maybe once or twice if i was lucky and the misses thinks im a stud - happy days! Also I'm really into "Edging" and for me masturbation can be an indefinite all day activity if i want it to be, in a nutshell solo orgasms are a decision i make rather than an involuntary reaction to what I'm doing. So that's where the literal interpratation of lenghty came from - it was more of time reference than a size reference but all be it an ambiguous one.

Initially i went with lengthy_magic and thought "that will do for now" until something better popped into my head, but nothing better ever did and it just stuck, before i knew it i had multiple profiles and a account all in that name and i felt it was too late to change it ever again. I even have people message me sometimes and say "hey i remember you" from another site in the past that i may have used which i think is really cool to be honest!

There have been times where i kind of wish I had stuck with Nobodyknowsimbi especially now that I'm into camming a lot more than i used to be. I recently received a lot of stick in a chatroom for having the name lengthy_magic and not having an enormous cock which ironically came from somebody who to be fair didn't really look to be too well hung himself but that being said with almost eight inches to show off i really don't think i have anything to be ashamed of and lets face how often do you

see guys on cam with a genuinely enormous cock... exactly, [i]really not that often[/i]!

Wait, whats that? "Why the underscore and not a hyphen?" I hear you say?

Ok I know nobody reading this is thinking that but for the record i just thought it looked better that way :-)

[b] Blog excerpt September '13 - Discovering naturism and bisexuality...[/b]

So even as a kid I knew that although i definitely wasnt gay I knew I was curious about guys too. When watching porn I was crazy about huge boobs and Ive been a big boob man my whole life (having done the bra alphabet all the way to HH) but the fact remains that as a kid i was equally fascinated by the guys with big cocks too! In my late teens and early twenties on the rare occasion a guy would hit on me in the gym or on nights out etc i would politely decline offers or play dumb because I moved in such extremely straight circles or had a girlfriend at the time but when i would get home later and thought about the guys whod hit on me Id kick myself for not talking more and maybe slipping the guy my number, but despite all this i guess i was in denial a bit as i still classed myself as Definitely Straight In my mid twenties i took a year off and went travelling through Australia & the Far East and it was in Oz that I discovered just how much I love the naturist way of life. When I lived in Bondi Id sneak off and climb the rocks around the north end the bay and sunbathe naked when i was sure id clambered far enough around that i was alone and as i travelled up the east coast I loved hiking along the endless white sandy beaches there and would often wind up on a nudist beach and if i was alone id happily drop my shorts. Sadly if I was with friends they were a bit horrified and would try to get to the clothed beaches as fast as possible much to my disappointment. Of all the beaches I got naked on though, Byron Bay was by far my favourite - white sand as far as you can see and nothing but trees & bush behind you. One morning after a heavy night of partying I woke up and decided to chill out on the beach as all my mates were sleeping off their hangovers, in my younger days i was blessed with the ability to party like a rock star and wake up next morning fresh as daisy (almost). I set off for a hike north along the beach mainly because i could see that waaaay off in the distance that the further along the bay you went the fewer the number of people there were. As usual i didnt set out to find a nudist beach, but after wandering at least three or four kilometers north I just happened to end up being on one and decided that this was a great place to stop. I got chatting to a passing naked guy who explained that whilst clothing was optional on Belongil Beach it was better to get my kit off and who was I to protest. I was near the split shore part of the beach so decided to settle down near the tree line so i was set back from the beach itself and not naked bang in the middle of the sand for all to see - i loved being naked but was still a bit shy you know. I immediately fell in love with the sense of freedom i felt being naked in such beautiful surroundings with nothing to fear about people seeing me naked. People of all shapes and sizes would come and go and nobody would pass any judgement. Families would come as a group and spend time naked together with not a care in the world it was quite frankly mind blowing and I wishes every day of my life could be like that - as a matter of fact i still do! My morning passed uneventfully and Im pretty much alone on the beach except for one or two people off in the distance when three young guys settle down together less than fifty yards from me and straight away i couldnt take my eyes off them. They were very slim, muscular, totally smooth & tanned all over, they were hot and, i might add, well hung! They lay facing away from me at the sea and the sight of those three hot naked bums lined up in a row has stayed with me to this day! It was in that moment that i thought damn I guess I really am bisexual!!! it was kind of an epiphany, i guess it finally dawned on me that yes i am very sexually attracted to guys and not just these three! Anyway after an hour of tanning and chilling they get up and start kicking a football around which was one of the best free shows Ive ever watched, you couldnt make this shit up right! After an eternity of me lying face down with a massive boner they run off in to the sea and back again numerous times in between tanning sessions which was an even bigger turn on it has to be said. Looking back as a confident adult i regret not going over starting conversation or joining in the game of football (although the huge erection may have been a deal breaker for them) but i dont remember seeing anything sexual between these guys, they rarely touched, they werent affectionate in anyway and when all is said and done they just appeared to be three guys who were just really comfortable being naked with each other so maybe its best I didnt approach them. I knew there and then that my time for experimenting would come, and whilst it was a good while before i did starting hooking up with guys Im glad i did when i had the chance and i seriously doubt the time would have come at all were not for these hot naked guys naked on Byron Bay Thanks guys whoever you were!!!

[b]Blog excerpt August `13[/b]

So i was listening to the radio today on my way to work and they were having a phone in between songs about people who go commando and why and how "unusual" it is or as some people put it in mens cases "a bit gross" which i thought was unnecessarily judgemental! I started sleeping naked in my late teens because i found it the most comfortable way to sleep through the night without interuption. No more waking up with twisted boxers or pajama bottoms for me i was going to get naked and stay naked all night long and from there it progressed to "why bother putting underwear on the next morning" and from that point on I stopped wearing underwear and in fact stopped buying underwear altogether. To this day I own about five pairs tops which rarely leave the back of the sock drawer! Apparently the name given to guys like me is a "FREEBALLER" which I find hilarious but wont be reffering to myself as a Freeballer anytime soon as i find it just a little bit too ridiculous - do we really have to apply labels to absolutely everybody?!?! My wife wasn't keen at first when we first met as she realised that she could always see the outline of my penis even in jeans, my arguement is that obviously she can see my penis but then why should anybody else be looking at my crotch and besides i really dont think i have anything to be embarrassed about, personally i get a bit turned on when i see the outline of other guys cocks through their jeans but i guess that's another story! Also i can see my wifes incredible cleavage 99% of the time and so can the rest of the general public when were out and about, do I care? not a bit! Again guys and gorls staring at my wifes 36FFs, big turn on! There are certain caveats to the Freeballing rule (shit that name is catching!) I always where underwear if i'm going to the doctor etc you never know when they'll ask you to drop your pants even in the most unlikely of circumstances. i'm sure my doctor does it for kicks but then who am i to spoil the old girls her fun right?!?! I always wear underwear if i'm wearing a suit or very light trousers or formal attire etc - there are times where yes i admit it isn't appropriate for my cock to be unmissable even to people who aren't looking at my cock - I've made this mistake at a formal event once before back in my single days and got groped as a result which was enjoyable for me but probably not so much for the gropers husband who fortunately was too drunk himself to notice!!! Oh yeah the radio show in the end the hosts (one male one female i might add) came to the conclusion that going commando was fine and dandy for ladies, especially if they were in tight and/or short skirts but not really acceptable for guys - this i find outrageous and intend to rebel against this mindset indefinitely. PS - i just realised my underwear at formal events did not include my own wedding, i hung loose all day and loved every minute of it!!!!

Blog excerpt July `13

You know when you're at the gym or a spa and you're in the changing room and you always see at least one other guy who is completely at ease being totally naked in front of everybody and doesn't care who looks at him - well I have come to the conclusion that I have become THAT guy. I've been to the spa two weekends in a row now and whilst everybody else rushes to get the their clothes off and on as fast as possible to avoid any potential embarrassment I take my sweet ass time... and I've gotten the occasional compliment on the sly too from other guys so why stop now!!! Last weekend i was stood naked in front of my locker getting my stuff out and as i put on my shorts minus underwear of course the guy behind me said in French "no underwear, very nice!" I realised we were the only guys in there but didnt ask if he would have said the same thing if there had been other guys around. I turned and smiled politely and said thank you as fastened my belt, its nice to get a compliment every now and then!

[b]Blog excerpt June`13[/b]

You know when you're at a nude beach and you always see at least one older guy with big swinging balls? Well i worry that I'M going to be THAT guy one day. I'm a bit self conscious about the size of my balls, the older i get the bigger they grow and the lower they hang! I realise there's nothing I can do about it but whenever I'm nude in public i pray for a cool breeze to come along and help me hide them a bit, at the rate they are going I'm gonna have two grapefruits in my pants by the time in in my 60's!!! (Long way to go til then though!) Blog excerpt May`13 I have to say I love how socially acceptable or perhaps even normal it has become for us guys to be completely shaven. I'm 35 now and as soon as I left high school at 16 and entered a world where being slightly different to the accepted norm didn't result in barrage of abuse i started to shave my body hair and back then it was (I assumed) considered unusual. You didn`t see shaven guys in porn or at least not in the porn i had access to (this was after all the early days of the internet - just to show my age lol!) i often got the funny looks in the communal showers at my local gym and in fact a few guys even hit on me occasionally too which was nice! These days though everybody is at it! i see guys with no pubic hair all the time either at nudist beaches or in porn or the gym showers and its amazing! i remember one time when i was about 18 or 19 getting naked with a girl who went crazy when she saw how smooth i was and made all sorts of ludicrous assumptions that i was gay (bi of course but i didnt tell her that judging by her extreme response to seeing me shaven!) and even that i might be a I couldnt believe it! Im happily married now in 2013 and thankfully my wife loves the fact I'm as smooth as she is and in fact complains if i let it start to grow through laziness etc This is progress people - embrace it!