just a short factual story here. when I was in my early 30's I was working in retail and made a few friends with the warehouse staff. After work on our late evenings we would go to a strip bar and have a few dances each. Each time I went in I for some reason always ask the same dancer to dance for me. Then one time I asked for a dance and she took me away from my friends so we could be more secluded. As she started to dan...