She: exhibitionist

He: voyeur

Both: committed, easy going, not interested in drama, conspiracy theories or extremes

PLEASE READ before contacting us. This is being edited and updated based on our current interests. Thank you to those who are messaging us. If we do not respond, please ensure you have read what we have described below to ensure you are meeting what we are currently seeking. We take our time and we have specific interests.

We have a busy family life, depending upon our schedule we will try to keep this updated. I manage this profile, more or less, and all photos posted are with Julie's consent. As some of you know, the male gets them into the lifestyle, but it is the woman that keeps them there. We are relatively new, but have had some interesting past experiences that have caused us to explore further.

We created the following to save time and awkward encounters. It gives you an idea of where our interests lie at the moment. If you are not included in the characteristics we mention, do not be offended it is nothing personal, some people like apples others prefer oranges. 

Our Current Interests i.e. what we are looking for at the moment:

We are looking for couples (our preference), and will consider single female(gay or bi):

1. Boudoir/Erotic Photography (most preferred at the moment):

Julie has a fair bit of experience here and loves the outing. It is a huge turn for her. Couples/females/males with experience/professional skills are preferred.

2. Role Playing/Phone Sex:

This is related to the above and came about by accident during a photography session, so she has some experience here. The basic idea is that you rehearse a scene or photo session with her. You should have a soothing voice and self-control. She is very compliant here, but read our restrictions noted below.

3. Exhibitionism

Julie like's to dress up. Often, but not always, a tame exterior with something sexy underneath e.g. crotchless panties as seen in the forest walk pic, sometimes a sheer top with a 1/4 cup bra or no bra. If you are voyeur and appreciate the Lahaie style of eroticisms, send us a message.

Our Kinks:

As for our kinks, nothing extreme, just harmless fun. She loves to flash, she doesn't mind soft touching/caressing. She likes to be watched while masturbating. She likes phone sex where she is directed to masturbate. She is not into any body fluids that are not semen or saliva. She is not into violence, e.g. slapped or choked, so don't ask. If you mention anything about under age people, I will report you! Remember, I am always around and I protect her vigorously. I like to watch. Seeing her thrilled is a turn on.

About Us:

Julie and I are a long-term couple and hopefully will remain that way. We are both "professionals" with advanced degrees. You don't have to have one, but you do have to have great manners, be polite, and as a bonus be able to hold a reasonably intelligent conversation. 

We love board/card games of all kinds, both mundane and erotic. We love jokes, and love to laugh.

Please note that I am a former military cop, emphasis on former. I am reserved, cautious and like to make sure we are safe. I open up and relax once I know we are secure. I like to drink, but never lose self-control. She doesn't drink and neither of us do drugs. She is an academic. She is shy, somewhat nerdy, very sweet, but also likes to flirt. We both like good food, especially home made. We usually don't stay up late. Though we love to dance, we do not like music so loud we cannot hear each other talk. I guess we are a bit boring in the evening.

I am 6'2" 200lbs athletic build with a six pack hiding under my one pack. She is 5'10" medium build. Julie is not athletic, though she exercises regularly. She is rather clumsy, so the dance floor/stripper poles are not her strength, but she is brilliant and pretty, think Sandra Bullock.

Having tried just about everything in our sex life together, we are now seeking to move beyond and see if we can find a fun solution to some of our kinks.

As noted in the tag line she is an exhibitionist and I like to watch. We have not engaged in a full swing, and at the moment we are not interested. She has had some interesting experiences with others in a professional sense, e.g. professional massages and photographers that went beyond the norm. She was happy, so I was happy.

We are not looking for a long term relationship. We prefer to meet as strangers and stay pseudo strangers, i.e. acquaintances with benefits. If we enjoy your company, we would come back to play for a few times, but eventually it is likely to end.

Please be aware that we are not in a rush. Please understand this last comment, we are in no rush. We are not being difficult, we just want what we want. We want to find the right people to play with, it takes time. We will read your posts unless they are rude and/or crude. We will reach out to those we think we might have a connection with. Reaching out however is only the beginning, we need to ensure all is good and safe before we take the next steps. As you may have guessed, this is a serious post, so please reread and feel free to reach out to us.

And yes, the pictures I post are real. Please don't ask for a face picture.

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