Thanks for stopping by and reading our profile.  Owing to some life circumstances as well as Covid, we are taking a break from the lifestyle.  Not sure why anyone would be meeting in person when so much is at stake right now for the world. As always, life sometimes gets complicated and we are being pulled to spend more time on family issues and less on our social lives.  Hopefully the situation will change but for now John is happy to chat in the chatroom when Jess isnt around  (she's just not that keen on the site, but John seems strangely bound to it, Feel free to pm but we will be putting meet-ups on hold.  If you are socially or politically conservative, you can pass us by.   I don't think there is any need to go into why our US neighbours to the south have fallen into a nationalist, rascist abyss.

We are a mid to early 50's couple living in Windsor.  We are both well educated (graduate degrees) and professionally employed. She is 53 and a BBW.  He is 48 years old, 5'10" and 195 lbs.  You're more likely to see him on here than her because she is tired of lifestyle and has had far too many experiences in the lifestyle that resulted in permament physical and psychological injury.  Of course, not all experiences are bad, but more often than not, it hasn't been a good experience for Jess.  

We have had several experiences in the lifestyle including clubs and parties.  However, our preference these days is finding people who we can connect with on a social level, learn to trust one another and engage in play in private under same room situations.    Our don'ts are no-anal, no-BDSM or control/degrading language or behavior.  Our main aims when having fun in the bedroom is that everybody is participating and no one is left out.  Surprisingly the latter can be difficult to achieve as our experience is that often both parties of the other couple are not to the same extent interested in play or the lifestyle.  We also aren't into cuckholding, nor does he want to participate in pleasing the other wife while hubby watches leaving Jess by herself.

We really would like to find a couple with similar alternative lifestyle interests to be able to talk to and confide with on things and just have some vanilla fun with on occasion.  We love going out to good restaurants and chatting.  We have travelled extensively and are involved in many activities e.g. outdoor trips, hiking, or going to theatre and art displays.

On first dates, we have found that it is better to NOT play.  This is an opportunity to meet, chat and get to know one another without the additional pressure of trying to figure out where we are going afterwards and whether play will happen or not.  We have found that folks who don't want to invest in some social friendliness first aren't really interested in building friendships and we aren't trying to find one-night stand partners.

Thanks for taking to time to read this and looking at our profile.  Hope to catch you in the chats.

Sorry, we have cycled out of playing with single people. We've had too many experiences where single women used this site more as a dating site and didn't respect our marriage. We prefer the trust and lower level of emotional dynamics that come with interacting with other couples who love each other deeply and are committed to one another.  This makes the playing field more level and keeps our own marriage happy and secure.

Jess & John