Updated Dec 2022: While things have been slow the past couple of years, we have been having a lot of fun recently with responsible people. We enjoy visiting Desire resorts, and were semi-regular at M4 on weekend afternoons pre-2020. We enjoy watching, being watched and full swap with others, and will play together or separate based on our comfort. Her current interests include include sensation play, mild impact, rope and wax. A caring dom in the bedroom who can turn it off outside of the bedroom would be nice to find. We keep up to date on all vaccines we're eligible for, and don't want to hear from anyone who denies their benefits. We enjoy spending time in progressive, queer welcoming spaces. Nerdy guys with curvy wives definitely welcome!