We recently came to SH from the other nearly defunct Toronto site. We were there for a very long time and still have a profile, just no pics. However, you can see the many validations over there. We are a long-time married, ENM couple. We enjoy the company of other couples, single females and single gents (for you single guys, please only reply if you are a younger, well-built man. This is what she's looking for). We really have no specific rules or requirements, other than just be nice, pleasant and in decent shape. We like to meet in a no-expectations environment and see where it leads. A bar, a club, or whatever other suggestion you may have.