We recently came to SH from the other, now nearly defunct Toronto site. We were there for a very long time and still have a profile, just no pics. You can see the many validations over there, however. We are a long-time married, ENM couple. We enjoy the company of other couples, single females and single gents (for you single guys, younger and well-built is what she's looking for). We really have no specific rules or requirements, other than just be nice, pleasant and in decent shape. We like to meet in a no-expectations environment and see where it leads. A bar, a club, or whatever other suggestion you may have.