Hi all.

My wife and I have been playing for a few years now.  She prefers privacy, so I'm on here as a single.  My wife likes to choose her guys from those she meets live, rather than through anything online.  (And she's gorgeous, so she has no shortage of guys hitting on her...)  As for me, I'm less shy, so I thought I'd make an account for myself to help find playmates.

We've tried out several different things in the lifestyle; swapping privately with other couples, we attend the Tribe parties from time to time, local  groups, and we both play alone as well.  My wife has found she definitely doesn't like spectators, though... 

Finding a couple where my wife finds the guy attractive isn't easy.  It's not just about looks... it's about personality and attraction, and she just finds it easier (and more fun) to play with guys that she chooses, without any outside pressure.  I prefer she enjoy herself as much as possible, so lately our fun is most often playing with someone alone.  Fortunately she isn't the jealous type, and I also play.  (I think she actually prefers that I play too... I think it makes it feel more 'fair' to her if we're both having fun.)

I've made a few female friends I play with from time to time, but not getting out to Tribe parties reduces my chances for meeting people in the lifestyle, so here I am.

Hope to meet some fun people here.  ;)

-B