We been here for a while, have changed this up a few times. We are a long term couple. Been together for over twenty years. So we are very secure and share well. We have a really smooth attitude " if we do we do and we we don't we don't " kinda thing. We are totally unoffendable I know it's not a word but you know what I mean lol. We been called many things. Been left hanging blocked cancelled on last minute. I'm sure lots of us have experienced this. But haha it's all good. We understand them. Be Patient, be real and drama free. We turn and run from that. Be honest and speak your mind. If your the type that observes and get distraught or offended over little imperfections such as sending a friend request without a prior message. Not responding quick enough. Failing to notice something written in your profile flirting the wrong way saying the wrong words. bla bla bla way to complicating. There's no sequence. You need to be unoffendable to!! That's drama!! If you know what I mean. Beauty attration and excitement for us, begins in our minds. Looks are important to us for sure! But let's face it, it's not high school anymore. We thrive on other people's qualities and that four way connection more than flaws. Or being with top models. If your looking for perfection, don't look here. We been practicing this wondrous lifestyle for a little over five years now. There was a time we were very active and meting many couples. But our life has cycled to a different paste now. Young kids are growing with more school work changing job schedules bla bla bla life responsibilities and again lol you know what I mean. We won't be seen in many clubs or group events anymore. We been having trouble planning ahead. So we are mostly a last minute couple. Seeking friends to host. Only select down to earth smooth easygoing unoffendable couples like us! We like evening hang outs chatting flirting over a drink near the fire or something. Kinda like feeling the waves. If you know what I mean :) And if we all agree then perhaps a dip in our hot tub could fuel up the evening. We are non pushy and not the addicted typed that want to be at it all night long. And expect you to get naked as soon as you walk through the door. We are very horny individuals! Yes but friendship connection is important. To many one timers and pushy horny people have made us feel like fuck boxes rather then actual people! We like being sluts but not all the time! If you know what I mean. Game of cards supper etc. Our male is pretty straight and our female enjoys selective bi moments. Any kind of swap not a problem! We enjoy many aspects of play. Tend to mold into what people like. And most our Experiences have been foursomes. Alway open to ideas and things to try. We have a couple fantasies to still live out. If your still reading cool! If you skipped to the end well cool to. Send a message if you just want to chat that's fine to. Who knows maybe we could all chill with a trill. No promises no expectations no pressure.