We're going July 14-21. How did you like the resort?
We've met quite a few people on this site. Not all we played with but good portion we keep in touch. It takes time and patience is a virtue. It also helps to know what you are looking for. We are full swap couple so there is no point in contacting someone who is only into soft swap. That's why I don't understand the single men who continue to contact people where it says no single men. But that's another topic for another day...
Don't let the title fool you. Even though it is our honeymoon, we have been in the LS for 6 years now. We enjoy girl play and full swap. We are looking for non smoking couples with bi females. We are fully vaccinated. No single men. If you are in the area and would like to meet then drop us a line. BTW no single men.
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That brings us to another comment (which may be a different form question) we often get invites to view private albums from people who have never even sent us a "Hello mesage" or even tried to contact us before sending us their invite. We usually just ignore those as I find it strange you want to exchange private photos with someone you have never spoken too. Do others accept the invite or are we being rud eby ignoring them? We would like to get to know someone a little before we exchange private photos.
 We will send an album as we are discrete and don't want random people to see our faces on a swinging site but recognize thre has to be some attraction in order to even think of playing.
There definitely are real people here on this site. We've gone to one of the meet and greets so we've met a few of the regular chatters. We've also met people we played with on here. Some one and dones and others who are ongoing. Don't expect to meet right away. With patience and due diligence, you can meet some matches. The key is be honest and upfront. We weed out people fairly easily so that when we do meet, there is a much better chance of a playing match. We keep discrete but have no problem showing our faces relatively quickly. Those that don't reciprocate are red flags for us.
Ghosting happens all the time and usually when it comes time to meet. At that point everyone appears to be on the same page and looking for the same thing. I get that people can change their minds but a simple note saying so goes a long way. We're way more understanding if you come out and say that. Happened with us with a couple. Wife said she changed her mind and wasn't ready to meet. We were understanding and comforting that she changed it again and we eventually met. Not saying that this is going to happen all the time but the alternative of ghosting is down right rude and disrespectful.
We tried to organize a private one in April. Lined up previous FWB and guys from here. Date was set and 2 weeks before I asked the guys to confirm. Crickets. Had to cancel the hotel room. It is not easy to organize a private one. Had some other issues too if you want to chat privately about it.