We have been married for over 25 years and are comfortable with our sex life. Have often talked or fantasized about swinging but we have never done anything about it. We are soft swap when all are comfortable who knows :-) . We would like to find a couple that would enjoy a night out dinner, bar or dancing so we could see if the chemistry is right for all of us. This would be a good way to get to know each other and take it from there. All in all you could say "friends with benefits". Wife is bi-comfortable. We have a camper and spend a fair bit of time with it and meeting another couple camping can be a lot of fun.