We're a happily married couple of 25 years with three kids. We are down-to-earth and prioritize family above all else, while enjoying meaningful connections and new experiences together.

We seek like-minded couples and single women who share similar interests. We are not at all interested in single guys. We prefer great meals and laughs with old and new friends over partying all night, although we are looking forward to revisiting Oasis. We both play musical instruments and enjoy doing wine tours in Niagara and the Finger Lakes or relaxing on the beach. We enjoy engaging in friendly chats over drinks or online games. We prefer people who are more local (GTA) but we do travel to London semi-regularly and also have our NEXUS passes.

We welcome friendships within the lifestyle for dinners, events, and sharing stories - it's hard to have those conversations with vanilla friends! In terms of lifestyle, we prefer to play together in the same room until we feel more comfortable. We're open to parallel play, watching and being watched, and and possibly soft swap when we feel comfortable with friends. We value hygiene, prefer non-smokers (we don't partake but are 420 friendly) and are D&D free. He is V-Safe but we play safely.