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We’re a happily married couple of 25 years with three high school/university aged kids.  Down-to-earth and family-focused, we prioritize meaningful connections and love exploring new experiences together.

We’re seeking married or long-term, like-minded couples who share our interests.  We consider ourselves more polyamorous than swingers and so we are looking to develop a regular (possibly leading to exclusive) FWB dynamic, in and out of the bedroom, as opposed to random hookups.  Ideally, you’re new-ish to the lifestyle as well or with limited experience, like we are.  Physical attributes aren’t our focus; we're more interested in the connection, personality and potential friendship.  We prefer great meals and laughs with old and new friends over all-night parties, though we do enjoy our visits to Oasis.

Both of us play musical instruments and enjoy wine tours in Niagara and the Finger Lakes or unwinding on the beach.  Friendly chats over drinks or online games (RD2, The Division, Ghost Recon) are also our thing.  We’re especially interested in couples at a similar life stage as us who are somewhat local to the GTA.

We value friendships in the lifestyle for dinners, events, and sharing stories—after all, it’s hard to have these conversations with vanilla friends!  We prefer playing together in the same room but open to separate, exploring parallel play, watching, or being watched, and eventually a soft swap or even full swap as we build trust and comfort.  We are not DTF and it could take some time before we're ready to swap.  Hygiene is important to us, we’re non-smokers and D&D free and looking for the same (420 friendly, though!).  He is V-Safe, but we always play safely unless we’re in an exclusive arrangement.

We’d love to meet up for dinner or drinks, or at Oasis (we haven’t been to M4 yet so it wouldn’t make an ideal first meeting right now).  Either way, we’re looking for a connection first and not likely to play on first meeting.

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