I have past experience, looking for single ladies or couples that are willing to understand that sex and play is in the mind, small gestures, ability to laugh be smart and joyful together. Sexy is a confidence, and a responsibility to have empathy for peoples feelings and sometime respect for times when we are not dont want to feel.   The life style for me likely wont be a life long thing, rather a vehicle of honesty that has helped restore my own mind and heart into something trusting.  Some of the best, most self aware and honest people I have ever the pleasure to meet.

When things get heated, I am not aggressive from the start, I dig the tensions of lip biting passion that turns on a dime and some time on and off again of aggressive squirt worthy pounding. I like gushing rather than rushing.... And Repeat... It's important to meet regularly to let chemistry to do it's thing, chemistry does it's best things with flirtatious and naughty intellect