were eager to try a 3some. kind of a fantasy we've each had and because of the fact that were both new to this lifestyle(due to all our past spouses closed off mindedness)we thought we would try out online. we both have a pretty open mind and are interested in new experiences. although were not looking for another male to join i might consider allowing him watch under certain circumstances. bought loads of lingerie recently and still ordering more. love giving them as gifts if someone does happen to join us. willing to travel for the right person/people or experience.