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Dec 2024 update.
Stepping back for now.
Socializing yes. Playdates... Probably not.
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We are ddf and aren't into endless chatting. We are empty nesters and find ourselves with alot of spontaneous time (ie, often available on very short notice).
She, a shy introvert. Looks and acts like the stereotypical librarian. Neighbours and vanilla friends would never believe she sometimes enjoys sex with people and she doesn't even know their names...
He, a shy extrovert. Loves people and socializing. Often doesn't pick up on social queues. Has a constant internal monologue chirping in his ear, creating self doubt.
Together, we've been in the LS for over 20 years, but still have insecurities in larger groups (hotel takeovers, etc), athough we still attend when we can and are working through our issues.
She prefers the clubs where names might not even exchanged.
He enjoys the social aspect of the Lifestyle, but again... Doesn't pick up on body language very well.... So if you're interested in us, it is a good idea to tell us! Lol
If you're a single guy and straight, we wish you the best, but we have no interest. If you're ever up for bi play, sure. Otherwise, you aren't for us. Please don't try change our mind.
Mrs Ygk has a message for the guys... Please do not finger-bang me EVER. I do not like that. I like gentle ALWAYS. Like many people, I've had childhood trauma and as such, rough play is not fun for me. Your definition of rough and mine might be different. Communicate during PLEASE. I want your penis inside me. Not your finger.
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Tested for STI's regularly and we aren't shy about asking if you are too. #knowyourstatus
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We don't send or respond to "hi how are you" messages (we don't expect you to carry the conversation).
If we've taken the time to send you a message and we don't get the courtesy of a reply, we may follow up with a second (we get it... Life happens), but if you ignore our second message, it makes me wonder why you're here. It may be uncomfortable, but we all are supposed to be wearing our adult hats in this world. Sending a "hi, got your message and I don't think we are a match" message isn't that hard.... Ignoring people is childish.
Finally, please note any plans are subject to change on a dime. Mrs Ygk is an epilepsy warrior. While seizures are very rare (been almost 2 years!), they do happen, and when they occur, we're out of commission for a bit.
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4X vaxxed.
420 friendly.
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