We are ddf and aren't into endless chatting. We are empty nesters and find ourselves with alot of spontaneous time (ie, often available on very short notice).

She, a shy introvert. Looks and acts like the stereotypical librarian. Neighbours and vanilla friends would never believe she sometimes enjoys sex with people and she doesn't even know their names...

He, a shy extrovert. Loves people and socializing. Often doesn't pick up on social queues. Has a constant internal monologue chirping in his ear, creating self doubt.

Together, we've been in the LS for over 20 years, but still have insecurities in larger groups (hotel takeovers, etc), athough we still attend when we can and are working through our issues.

She prefers the clubs where names might not even exchanged.

He enjoys the social aspect of the Lifestyle, but again... Doesn't pick up on body language very well.... So if you're interested in us, it is a good idea to tell us! Lol

If you're a single guy and straight, we wish you the best, but we have no interest. If you're ever up for bi play, sure. Otherwise, you aren't for us. Please don't try change our mind. You won't.

Mrs Ygk has a message for the guys... Please do not finger-bang me or put anything inside me that isn't your penis EVER. I do not like that. I like gentle ALWAYS. Like many people, I've had childhood trauma and as such, rough play is not fun for me. Your definition of rough and mine might be different. Communicate during PLEASE. I want your penis inside me. Not your finger.

===

Tested for STI's regularly and we aren't shy about asking if you are too. #knowyourstatus

===

We don't send or respond to "hi how are you" messages (we don't expect you to carry the conversation). If we've taken the time to send you a message and we don't get the courtesy of a reply, we may follow up with a second (we get it... Life happens), but if you ignore our second message, it makes me wonder why you're here. It may be uncomfortable, but we all are supposed to be wearing our adult hats in this world. Sending a "hi, got your message and I don't think we are a match" message isn't that hard.... Ignoring people is childish.

Finally, please note any plans are subject to change on a dime.  Mrs Ygk is an epilepsy warrior. While seizures are very rare (been over 2 years!), they do happen, and when they occur, we're out of commission for a bit.

===

4X vaxxed.

420 friendly. 

Finally, if we agree to exchange pics and you do not uphold your part, please know that is a pretty immature thing to do and you will be blocked. Wear your adult hat ffs. Word will get around. Kingston isn't that big. Most of the real swingers all know each other. Speaking of which... Ask about our private Ygk Pineapple Social Group (diff platform). We are pineapple people doing both vanilla and pineapple activities in person. Not just an online share funny pics group.