Oct 19 2025 update

It's been quite a while since our last profile update. This one is pretty major.

We've been in this world for a very long time- 25 plus years. We were so green when we started....

We are the same name on ALL social media platforms

Over the years we have gone to hotel takeovers (MonsterBash in Niagara Falls Oct 24-27! Not yet completely sold out!), the Clubs (M4, X-club), and we try to make it to Tribe as much as we can in the summer. We are empty nesters and also host friends at home for fun.

We used to be DTF, not necessarily interested in knowing too much about our playmates.

To a certain degree we still are. We don't want to be drawn in to any drama...but we've also found some friends that we may play with the odd time, but we hang out and watch NHL or MLB, play cards or a board game often. Still looking for the elusive LS people who are also NFL fans (Bills and Vikings fans here).

We are also finding that we'd like to explore parallel play and soft swap more than full swap.

A - cultivates the librarian look. Outside of a LS event she is very comfortable in turtlenecks or one-piece pj's. A shy introvert. Somewhat insecure.

-sex tip....if we play - Don't fingerbang me please. Much more pleasurable to focus on the outside (lips, clit). If your finger goes inside I won't be enjoying it AT All. I won't tell you during play (not my nature although my husband may say something), but it'll be noted and will be a factor if there is a repeat visit.

M - shy extrovert. I work 100% from home currently, so I don't see people very often and miss it so much. May talk your ear off and try not let you go lol.

Starting process of getting an ADHD diagnosis. (assuming it's ADHD... Maybe it's autism?) Either way... I sometimes don't pick up on social queues (ie, if you're interested in us, I probably won't pick up on it).

I am a huge supporter of the Me Too movement. I try be uber respectful to everyone and believe in consent before touching any woman... which makes it difficult in this world where sexy flirtation and touch is wanted and the norm.

We try respond to all messages received (except the chatroom style "hi, how are you?" messages.... Come on... Put in a bit of effort).

If your profile suggests that you only respond to select messages, it is a deal breaker... we will block you. Sorry, but if someone takes the time to initiate a conversation with someone else, "no response" is the asshole response. Do you fucking know how hard it is for some people to send that first contact?

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Tested for STI's regularly (negative) and we aren't shy about asking if you are too. #knowyourstatus

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Finally, please note any plans are subject to change on a dime. Mrs Ygk is an epilepsy warrior. While seizures are very rare (been over 2 years), they do happen, and when they occur, we're out of commission for a few weeks.

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4X vaxxed (does that matter anymore?).

Very 420 friendly . (very very lol. We share that too)