I agree 100% with what you're saying, but for me it hasn't been that simple, I have done many profile updates and still an admin wont approve the updates or your system won't actually register it in. And I have talked to many couples/single ladies on the pretense of a meet n greet and they are always coming up with excuse after excuse why they "cant" meet up....I'm also on at least three times a week, so I'm definitely interested and putting the effort in!