Anyone planning on going to the x-club on newbie Friday - July 5th? We are going and hoping to start a chat with any couples also planning on being there.

It looks like this forum group isn’t very active. Today is May 11, 2024 and we are looking to go to the X-club tonight. Went last Friday for newbie night, and decided to buy a membership. We had fun just watching and enjoying each other. Hope to have some fun with others in the future. Lets us know if you are going tonight. It would be great to connect with others who are new in the LS.

Anyone else going to M4 today (May 4). I was told it is going to be “out of this world” . May the fourth be with you! 😂. Stay sexy people … and hope to connect with someone tonight

Is anyone going to M4 this Saturday. We have never been however looking for comments from those that have been and able to provide recommendations on what we should know heading in.

We have never been to the Oasis, but are considering going this Saturday! Any thoughts/recommendations for newbies in the LS and venturing out to this club?

Wow, so the Mrs. and I experienced our “first” lifestyle event. The X Club was “fun” 😉. We were very much in a “shock and awe” moment, but ventured through the evening, very much in a “voyeur mode”. We did enjoy time together, although we didn’t strike up a conversation with anyone! What is a great icebreaker anyway at a sex club ??? 😂.

The overall experience was positive and we have decided to “try again” this Friday. We definitely still consider ourselves newbies. We are looking to be a bit more adventurous, looking to strike up a conversation, perhaps trying out the bench in the dungeon room; or even venturing into the main play area. The Mrs. isn’t sure about having an experience with anyone other than me yet, but has opened the door for me to play with others (not sure how that would work?). Anyways any recommendations/suggestions/thoughts are welcome.

Anyone going this Friday (Feb 2) to newbie night? We are going to go to “check out” the club and see what it is all about. Excited/Nervous but are going to give it a try. If you see a person in a “little black dress” looking like a deer caught in the headlights… and her husband looking like a kid in a candy store… that’s us 😂. Perhaps say hi, we are short on conversation starters .. as not sure what is a typical conversation like at a sex club?

Hi Suzette, we did not make it, nervous perhaps, didn’t know what/how we were going to strike up a conversation. Although we are (we’re) excited to attend. We need to get a bit more confidence about taking the first (big) steps.

Thank you Suzette, we are going to give this Newbie night a try. We did some research this weekend and this club seems “nice”. Not sure what we are getting ourselves into here.. but it looks fun! Maybe we will see you there.

We are considering attending this “newbie night” as well. We are the epitome of “newbie” …. Looking to see, and possibly experience what the club has to offer.