Hi! Thanks for checking us out. We are a fun couple in a stable long term marriage looking for adventure and preferably find long term connections. We've been together for 15 years and have reached a point where we have each other figured out and still have a lot to give to the right people. We like to spend our time with people that we actually enjoy hanging out with and can talk to. If there is a spark and good sexual energy between us, then we are pretty open to see where things go! Sometimes that's just drinks or dinner, or sometimes right into a full swap or an on-going dating situation. We do have a rule though that no-one gets left out, so do want everyone to be involved. We are not into hardcore BDSM. We love seeing each other with other people, it is soooo sexy to watch someone enjoy your partner and vice versa. We have yet to experience any jealously between us with same room play and we would expect the same from our partners. That said, we are human & know feelings can come up unexpectedly - we would hope that there is open trust and communication to navigate that in a respectful way together. Overall we are busy people with careers, children, and a social life, so we appreciate the initiative to make a plan and make things happen! We are very open people, so if you have a question, just ask!