I am here to explore with open minded single women, couples, trans gendered (MTF) women and select bi males. I am honestly hoping to find a long term partner but would enjoy making more great connections in the lifestyle and kink scene. Enjoying ongoing experiences is my preference but I may entertain single experiences if the scenario is right and the playmate(s) is exceptional.  We have to start somewhere so let's chat and consider meeting for a coffee, drink or activity? It takes a conversation and in person, to determine chemistry and connection.

what/whom I seek:

INFJ

Touch and Quality Time are my primary Love Languages.

I am open minded, emotionally Intelligent and emotionally available.

I am a sapiosexual and demisexual man. With a partner(s) that I find genuine connection and chemistry with, the following is important, and something to explore together over several encounters, or even over months and years:

Tantra, Sacred Sexuality and Kink, which includes BDSM with Dom and Sub dynamics. I am a Sensual or soft Dom, do enjoy switch from time to time and love sensory play, bondage, shabari, kinbaku and more.

If it is more than a two player game:

MMF, FFM, MFM and group play are wonderful. I am experienced with all of the above.

Bisexual, pansexual threesomes or group play are amazing. A tangle of bodies lost in pleasure and unconcerned about where one body ends and the next begins. Each enjoying everyone else in the scenario, without inhibition.

With a lover and partner I am GGG, not vanilla, am a Sensualist and Behaviourist equally, and my Erotic Blueprint is a Shapeshifter.

Everyday me and vanilla me, for those curious about long term potential?

I am quite active and enjoy a variety of activities and interests.

Beaches, rivers, mountains and forests are my happy places. My sanctuary.

I enjoy yoga and meditation, martial arts, triathlon, Crossfit and other fitness activities.

I am a hopeless romantic and love little gestures and actions. Hand holding, cuddles, giving foot massages and so on.

Animals are important in my life. Dogs and horses primarily, but I value all animals and time with them.

Cooking is a passion of mine and I am certainly a foodie.  Pairing good food with craft beer, or quality wine is amazing!

Reading, drawing, painting (poorly), enjoying the theater, dance and arts in general, are important ways for me to spend time, and I love movies.

Dance and music are a passions of mine.

I am very socially conscious, support deconstructing colonialism, LGBTQ+, and environmentalism.