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Monster Bash is now 90% Sold Out.... for those that have not heard of the event... here are the details...

The ULTIMATE Lifestyle Multi Day Event!

The TABOTA Monster Bash Halloween Extravaganza is a FULL Weekend Complete Hotel Takeover you won’t want to miss!

Since 2007 The TABOTA Monster Bash has been an over the top Halloween Event like no other… With it’s roots as the Northbound Leather Friday Night Pre-Party in Downtown Toronto to our Annual O Zone TABOTA Club Event and now a Full Weekend Hotel Takeover!

And this year will be like nothing you have ever experienced! Hosted at our Premier Niagara Hotel with Indoor Water Park and Pool Side VooDoo Lounge!...We are pulling out all the stops with a full weekend of Wild Halloween themed Sexy activities!

For Couples arriving early, we will be hosting a Thursday Interactive Escape Room Event followed by our Rocky Horror Theme Dance!

As we kick the party into high gear on Friday, we will be hosting a “Roll The Bones” Meet & Greet Event followed by Vampire Night our Friday theme!

We will have multiple Play Areas including our Penthouse play area, the Kinky Playroom and our Pool Side Kink Garden!

Saturday is Party Day with a full line up of Sexy Halloween Themed Fun... XXX Rated Pumpkin Carving…  a Pirate & Wenches Treasure Hunt…. Sexual Tarot Card Readings… Professional Body Painting & Tattoo Station… Wax Play and Shibari Rope Bondage Demo/Workshop… Poll Dance Workshop...  and of course…. Lick or Trick or Treat Room Crawl and Door Decorating Contest!

Saturday will be Rocking all day long with our Pool Side Band…. Walk the Plank Pool Zombie Walk contest and Fashion Show with Pool Party fun till 3am!

…And the what Halloween Event would be complete without a Carnival?... Our Carnival of Sinz will feature Carnie Games like…. Cock Toss… Bra Pong…Naked Wind Tunnel Cash Grab…. Naked Axe for Dicks….X-Rated Beer Pong and A Cock Shooting Gallery! And Of course… Popcorn and Candy Floss J

As we groove into the evening Festivities on Saturday we will Host a Dinner Murder Mystery on Bourbon Street…. Black Tape Body Artistry and a Photo Booth in preparation for The Main Event… The TABOTA Monster Bash Halloween Gala! The DJ will spin till 2am but the party will not stop there!... All Playrooms will be open till 4am and the Clothing Optional Hot Tubs and Pool will be open till 3am.

Why party for only a few hours at a club when you can make your Lifestyle Halloween Celebration a full weekend, 3 night (and day) Event!....THIS WILL BE A SOLD OUT EVENT… BOOK NOW… DON’T MISS IT!!...

June 4, 2020 UPDATE: Sandy Bottoms Resort is OPEN for 2020!!

We are glad to announce that the local health department in coordination with the provincial government have given us the green light to re-open Sandy Bottoms Resort for the 2020 season.  

We will be following all provincial guidelines and health department recommendations and some areas of the resort will not be permitted to be open. Our Cozy Cabins and tent camping are not permitted at this time and communal areas must remain closed.

For your safety, we have made a number of enhancements and modifications. Please visit our website for more information.

We know many couples are looking for a safe and fun way to get out and enjoy the summer in a responsible manner. We’re here for you!

We are now taking bookings for the 2020 season. Visit our website for more information on Sandy Bottoms and to book your 2020 summer vacation.

The same as any other business where people gather socially, The O Zone has shut it's doors to help stop the spread of Covid19 as was mandated earlier this month. 
We wish everyone good health and safety in this uncertain time, and we look forward to reopening our doors when it's safe to do so. Be well! 

Due to the situation with Covid 19, we regret to inform that we will be closing our doors at
The O Zone, until further notice.
We appreciate your continued support during these challenging times and hope that you and
your loved ones stay safe.
This includes this weekend's big Super Party, Mardi Pardi (March 21). If you have tickets to this event already, we'll be rescheduling a new date in future, soon as we know when it'll be safe to reopen. Until then, be safe out there!

Until we see you again,
The O Zone

If you're in Ontario, Canada or headed this way in the summer months, check out Sandy Bottoms Resort, a private boutique resort that is clothing optional and LS friendly. Tucked away in the woods on a private lake with no neighbors, guests can rent a room, villa or cabin, or bring their tent, camper or RV for a more economical stay. While not a campground, we will find room for you to camp or park your rig. (no hookup or dumping station, but we can provide power). 

Sandy Bottoms Resort is 'self-catering', which means you bring your own food and drink, as it's not licensed nor is there a restaurant on site. (town is just 12 minutes away if you've forgotten anything). Use our communal kitchens and BBQ's (propane provided) to cook up delicious meals. Mix drinks in our communal Cabana Bar, including a blender for slushy drinks!
Daily schedule of events to keep you moving, or do whatever you'd like... hiking, swimming, sunbathing, paddling around our lake on any of our kayaks, canoes, etc. Everything on the resort is included: Free parking, ice machine, firewood, WiFi, propane, use our bicycles, boats, yard games, etc. 
Visit our official website for details, dates, rates and to book your next hedonistic Ontario Vacation! SandyBottomsResort 

VIN is getting so close!! All rooms in our host hotel are now COMPLETELY SOLD OUT!! We do have a limited number of Couples Passes available still, which gets you both into all that VIN has to offer. There are plenty of nearby hotels, and we're working on securing a great deal at a hotel just up the street. 

Evening entertainment is secured!~ Saturday night, we'll have Dave Curren, the Bad Boy of Hypnosis turning our guests into people they arent, and doing all sorts of crazy things. Followed by Marc Trinidad, stand up comedian! It's going to be a great night! Followed by our TABOTA Sponsored Mardi Gras party Sat night! We'll be handing out hundreds of strands of Mardi Gras beads to the gents... ladies, wear something that you can easily flash in to earn beads all night long. At 1am, the Most Beads will be awarded a great prize!!

Greetings and welcome when you do arrive in Canada!

I can answer a few of these questions for you. I work with The O Zone, and for us, there is no annual membership fee. We incorporate that into the first visit, and it never expires. (I understand most of the other clubs have an annual fee... no idea if they allow a 'visitors pass' without membership for a 1 time visit)

The O Zone is only open Fri and Sat nights, and admission for regular nights (unless it's a super party) are Fri = $40/couple, Sat = $60/couple (membership is included). We also have "DP Fridays" where if you go on Fri and pay the admission, let us know you'll be back on Sat. night and you're in for free!
The membership fees in Ontario allow a club to allow 'on premise' sex (don't need to go to a hotel room when you're ready to play). Gathering personal information on each couple allows us to be a "members only club" and is another aspect that allows us to offer the On Premise aspect.

Swinger Rules/Etiquette stipulate 'no touching without consent' and 'no means no'. Most swingers use protection with any partners not their primary, and most clubs in Toronto (at least The O Zone does) supply basic latex condoms and lubricant. (we also offer FREE locks/lockers, towels, shower, mouth wash, parking, snacks and food served throughout the evening, self serve coat check - many of the other clubs charge for some of these.... downtown clubs have crazy expensive parking fees) 

Not all attendees at all swingers clubs are swingers. Lots of open minded couples like to go to The O Zone or other spaces just to dance, dress provocatively, flirt with their partner and perhaps others. Don't be surprised if you are turned down, as not everyone is interested in the same things you might be. (like public sex, sex with someone not their partner, or penetrative sex). It's been my experience that some people just like the atmosphere at a club. 

The O Zone is a nightclub with dance floor and stellar sound and light system, and rotating DJ's. Most of the Toronto swinger clubs have a nightclub feel (except Oasis... it's more like a bathhouse, light music, more casual and is open all day)

Not knowing what the norm is in Europe, I can't really answer in comparisons. We prefer a dress code of "Dress to Impress" rather than street clothes (if everyone dresses up or wear costumes, that adds to the atmosphere.... if ppl are wandering around in jeans and flipflops, that really reduces the energy in a room/club). 

How do people approach each other? Politely without touching... start with a question or comment. (Have you been here before? or Those are gorgeous shoes! Really makes your legs look great! That usually breaks the ice enough to know whether you should stick around to chat, or move on.)

Hope this helps!! Safe travels!

A bit off your path, but check out Pandoras Forest in TN. It was on my To Do list when I traveled to Florida but didnt make it there.

The O Zone has a Blackout EDM Night on Sat 18th... just sayin'! Very different vibe from Oasis. smile 

Valentine's in Niagara is just 1 month away! Eeeee! So excited for this year's lineup! New workshops and seminars, some vendors, as well as our evening entertainment followed by themed dances each night. Friday night = Red and White and Shiny All Over. Saturday night = Mardi Gras! (wear something you can easily flash in ladies... we'll give every guy a dozen bead necklaces to 'reward' you for flashing them! Most beads at midnight wins a great prize! So much happening.... pool parties and games, meet and greet, wet Tshirt contest, and plenty of FREE Swag and prizes all weekend long! Rooms are nearly all sold out! (Couples passes will still be available until they are sold out as well). There is going to be steam rising off the Falls this VIN!

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For some reason I can't figure out how to PM you for the details to the MeWe group... can you share this with me?

 I sent you a PM with instructions. smile 
For others, simply go to MeWe and set up a free account, then PM me there at Tiffany Tabota and I'll shoot you an invite to our private group. :) 

If you're interested in NYE at The O Zone, The Radisson on Dixon Rd has created a NYE hotel room special that includes champagne, breakfast for 2 and parking. Call the hotel front desk to get in on this deal!

There is now a chat group set up on MeWe (a phone app, like but without the annoying escorts) with several couples chatting about what to wear, what to pack, expectations, and setting up pre-parties. Get in on the chatter! PM me for details and an invite to the group once you download MeWe. Cheers!

Baby Steps. Assuming this works great for you both, it's something you'll revisit time and again. Don't "Go For Broke" right off the bat, or it'll get old faster. Enjoy every step, and build on your last experience. 
Develop a Safe Word (even if it's just a gesture, a look, or a phrase) that lets you communicate with your partner if you need to extract yourself from something and don't want to hurt someone's feelings. (I've heard enough couples say they wanted to stop but didnt want to cause an issue so they 'took one for the team', and had a less than stellar result). Likewise, easy way to indicate to your partner that you're a go if they are, again without the other people knowing what you're saying. ("Boy could I go for some strawberries right now!" - strawberries are known as an aphrodisiac so could be used as a "I'm Good To Go" indicator. Does this make sense? lol  

It's still early, but have you got plans for NYE yet? The O Zone Toronto is hosting it's annual Gala affair, "Midnight Masquerade" on Dec 31st! Everything you'd expect from a club: multiple bars open to handle the masses, specialty drinks and shots, snacks, appetizers and food served all night, 2 large playrooms with access all night long, showers, locks/lockers, towels, etc all included in admission! 

And because it's New Years Eve, we'll giving away free masks, hats and noisemakers, with a balloon drop and shooting streamers at midnight along with a mini bottle of champagne for every couple! Doors open at 8pm, bar closes at 3pm, club open til 4am! 

Check out all the details and get tickets at our website: TakeABiteOfTheApple 

So... what are YOU doing for NYE this year?

Pool side rooms are booking up fast! Those are the rooms that open directly into the tropical atrium and pool area with a large window looking into the rooms. Many exhibitionists love these rooms, and often are booked for the following year when people check out at the end of the event. That doesn't mean you won't get a room... there are plenty in the tower so you're only an elevator ride away. Other couples prefer to book only the Couples Pass (which gets you into the event, all parties, play rooms, workshops, contest and give away's... just does not include accommodations). If you're local you can opt to drive home at the end of the night, or perhaps find a hotel nearby for the more budget minded. However you do it, VIN is Over The Top!! 

Go to The O Zone in Toronto on Friday night (Winter Warmup - Fr. Nov 29) and score tickets to attend the /Everything To Do With Sex Show this weekend, Nov 29-Dec 1 at the International Centre. While you're at the show, swing by The O Zone's booth and get FREE tickets to get into the After Party at The O Zone Sat. night! (Eyes Wide Shut Gala - Sat. Nov 30) Who doesn't like FREE??

Wow! The bookings are rolling in, way earlier than last year, when the rooms sold out a couple of weeks before the event! This year it looks like that may happen even earlier. Of course, there will be some Event Only Passes available once the rooms sell out, but you'll have to find accommodations at a neighboring hotel, and commuting after an evening of drinks and fun kinda sucks. Book soon to avoid disappointment!

Valentine's in Niagara - Feb 7-9, 2020
This complete hotel takeover is one of the largest LS events in Canada, and attracts hundreds sexy, hedonistic couples from all over Canada and the US. This is our 13th year, and it keeps growing every year! This year, new workshops, seminars, and events will be joining our already stellar Calendar of Events: themed dance parties, evening entertainment, vendors, body painting, contests and games with tons of swag and prizes to give away. Check out for details, rates and to book your sexy, romantic Valentine's getaway! 

Monster Bash is one of The O Zone's biggest, craziest events of the year!! We sell out well in advance, and last year, turned away more than 25 couples arriving and hoping to pay at the door as usual! Don't be disappointed! Get your tickets online soon!

The Infamous TABOTA Monster Bash....

Join us at The O Zone for the 11th Annual TABOTA Monster Bash....
Saturday October 20th !!

Canada's Largest Lifestyle Halloween Event !!!

TABOTA pulls out all the stops for this SUPER PARTY... Monster Bash!!

Book early for one of the BIGGEST Parties of the year, and don’t be 
disappointed !!

  Appetizers served throughout the evening

Prizes all night long! Body Shots, specialty drinks and shots! 3 bars open !

Join hundreds of other sexy, scary couples for a Monstrously sexy time !!

Playrooms open the entire evening

As Always.... This Event will be Over the Top !!!....

It will be a SOLD OUT Event!!!

BOOK NOW Before it is SOLD OUT !!! 
(Google the event name to find out official website)

Doors open 8pm - 2am

The O Zone
36 Stoffel Dr, Toronto, ON

Working on adding to the workshop and seminar schedule, as well as more vendors, so our attendees will have more to do! Adding an Adult Craft Table as well, for name necklaces on Friday night so everyone can remember your name, and rock painting (just like at Hedo II) to take home with you after. It's going to be a stellar weekend! We started early this year, and it shows.... reservations are pouring in daily, and we expect to sell out even earlier this year. Get your tickets before they sell out!

Well, Sandy Bottoms has closed for the season! We'll be back at it next summer though! If you went this year and know your vacation dates for next year, you can call (not available online) and book before the end of this year --- and save the equivalent of the tax!
Other Deals:

Newbie Week in June and Fall Fling in Sept are both reduced by 25%. 
Book any full week or mid week (Mon-Fri) and receive an additional 30% off!! 

So worth it!! See you at Sandy Bottoms in 2020!!!

Come and celebrate a VERY Special Night with us ! Saturday, September 14th !

The O Zone 10 Year Anniversary Gala !

Join us in celebrating 10 years of great parties at Toronto’s HOTTEST 
Couples Club!

This will be a Black Tie Event…. Don’t Miss it !!! 

This super party will include -
- snacks and appetizers all night long
- prizes all night
- cocktail and shot specials, body shots
- Grand prize ONE YEAR PLATINUM MEMBERSHIP TO THE SEXIEST COUPLE
Don’t Miss It…. NO ADVANCE BOOKINGS… Arrive early !!

Doors open 9pm - 2am
The O Zone
36 Stoffel Drive, Toronto, ON


Join us for the 13th annual Valentines In Niagara Couples Convention! Fri. Feb. 7 - Sun. Feb. 9, 2020.

A Full Weekend, LS Complete Hotel Takeover in a Lush Indoor Tropical Waterpark in romantic Niagara Falls, ON !!  

Join hundreds of couples from across North America for Canada's Largest Lifestyle Couples Convention.

Workshops - Seminars  - Pool Parties - Theme Dances - Entertainment - Contests & Giveaways - Vendors - 

Play Rooms - and MUCH More!... All weekend Long!

Hundreds of sexy couples waiting to meet you! A weekend of naughty shenanigans! 

This event is always Completely SOLD OUT!!

Last Year SOLD OUT in Record Time!!... All the Best Rooms are Going 
Fast!... Book online now!


It's Summer Splash week at Sandy Bottoms, starting today! Space is limited, and the shenanigans are going to be high! Join us!! This is the last full week of the summer.

Next is Fall Fling, Sept 13-15th. There is a group of ATV'ers doing a mini-takeover, and anyone joining for the weekend can bring their ATV and join the tour, both on Friday and Saturday. 

Just 3 weeks away now!! It's filling up fast! The schedule of events is full full full! 
Insider Tips: Bring swim goggles if you plan to go into the foam pit! (otherwise you won't be able to see a thing). 
There is a licensed restaurant onsite. Many couples do breakfast and snack in the afternoon, then head to the restaurant for a hearty meal to get them thru the evening. (in past, the restaurant has offered Meal Packages, but last year it was a la carte)
There are showers with hot water - bring shower shoes. If you want hot water, shower before 9pm or mid afternoon. smile 
Aug 7 and 8th are Wed and Thurs... there is no schedule or music by the Event Producers, this is just a chance to arrive early and set up so you're ready to party when HUNDREDS of others arrive on Friday! Camp Crawls are inevitable on Wed and Thurs. 
Bring floaties/blow up rafts for the beach, especially if arriving before Friday.
Many guests set up their own personal playroom outside their tent, so there's always Visual Stimulation! 

Join us, wont you??

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 Cya there! It's pretty full all week, so be ready for a party!! 

Teddy Bare Picnic is just 69 days away!! Haven't got your tickets yet? Your procrastination has paid off! Book in person at The O Zone at any event and get a discount on passes to TBP! (no more phone bookings) See you at the Picnic!!

Why not check out Ontario Canada this summer? The weather is as hot in July and August at Sandy Bottoms Resort as it is in Jamaica in February, and potentially easier and cheaper to get to. Just a few hours drive from Toronto, Ottawa, and the US Border, Sandy Bottoms is a clothing optional, LS friendly retreat with a private beach and lake. All amenities are included, although the resort is 'self catering', so bring all you'll need to eat and drink. This makes it a much more economical vacation for most.

With themed week-long vacations, each with a Schedule of Events each day to keep the energy up, there's always something to do. Or simply enjoy whatever it is you wish: sunbathing, floating on the lake or paddling around it with our kayaks, canoes, etc. Nightly themed parties, mixers, games, contests and more!
Book a room, villa or cabin, or bring your tent, trailer or RV and join the fun! Check our official site for rates, dates and Hot Deals!  (Week-long discounts, as well as mid-week 2 and 4-night vacation deals).

Teddy Bare Picnic is like Spring Break for Adults! Just hundreds of sexually minded couples doing what they do! Music all weekend so like a music festival. The organizers do a LOT to create a naughty atmosphere, including huge Foam pit on Sat night, lube wrestling, human sundaes, huge play room with hot tubs, body painting, and more. The whole place is clothing optional. Its pretty popular, so expect to be camping right beside another couple or group (no designated camp sites). There are a few rooms at this resort, but they always book up fast, so if you want a room, call now.