Profile Updated July 2023

We are still relatively new to this lifestyle but after 1.5 years exploring together, we have learned a few things about our desires and boundaries, so please read on before contacting us.  We’re sapio/demi sexual creatures. As such, we want to engage with people who want more than just sex and who will take the time to get to know us and share about yourselves.  

We're both “situationally” bi and therefore, simply put, we’re seeking individuals where we can create those situations. That means SHE does not swap with other men. We know this may be a deal breaker for some, and that's perfectly ok as we are seeking quality connections with quality people with similar desires and sexual fantasies. She loves to play with women especially with him participating. Situationally, she loves to watch him with other women, so this depends on the couple and female. And to be clear, it is SHE that drives the play with women. We are also happy to entertain secure single women should there be a mutual three-way interest. Single men may be entertained only if they accept that they will not be having sex with her.

Who we are as a couple 

We are a passionate, fit, educated, professional and emotionally mature couple born of a later-life foray into REAL love. We began as friends who discovered an intense sexual chemistry and like-mindedness and before long, fell head-over-heels in love. A decade on, we remain both best friends and deeply in love. Those we have met so far appreciate how our love and connection is so clearly articulated in the bedroom with intense passion and energy. 

Together, we derive joy in sharing the pleasures of ALL the senses and new experiences together including the best things in life: great wine, craft beer, delicious and decadent foods - balanced with healthful choices, the beauty of nature, the exhilaration of heart-pumping exercise, the adventure of travel, and the delight of special relationships. We love hiking, road trips, time with our dog, and spending time in our garden.

What we Value 

Honesty, integrity, open communication, respect, genuine caring, and a shared desire to enjoy life with an open mind.  We value couples who are similarly emotionally mature, secure in their relationships and non-judgmental and those who love to laugh and align with at least some of our life pleasures above.  

What we are looking for:

We are and will always be each other’s lover — but we’re here and in this lifestyle together because we can’t provide for each other the feelings of same-sex experiences. Our hope is to find another couple who feels the same about each other and who also seeks the fulsome experiences that 4 in the same room and specifically same-sex experiences can create as we, together, explore and push our limits and create pleasure for all. That could also include just being in the same room with another couple too as we enjoy exhibitionism and voyeurism.  

We are probably atypical in the lifestyle, as rather than swapping partners we seek experiences together that connect and feed us. We are ok with you having different desires but please don’t be with us in the hopes that things will change and that we will become a hetero-full swap couple. Let’s be present in this moment together.  

We are a lot of fun and invest in our friendships. Ultimately, we aren’t looking for one-night stands or people who are not honest and genuine about who they are or what they want. 

More about us individually:

Him (written by her)
He is a hedonist who truly lives with all of his senses. He is the ultimate observer of people and the world, and he is a photographer and writer at heart. He sees and feels deeply and grabs many aspects of life with both hands. Whether he is pushing the limits of his body and mind with endurance sports - road cycling in summer and cross-country skiing in winter, cooking a new and challenging dinner for friends or ravaging me with new toys and experiences.  He is the most intelligent, curious, thoughtful and creative person (both in and out of the bedroom) I’ve ever known.

Her (written by him)
She is pure, unadulterated passion and sex. With a creative mind, a dedication to making everyone else’s life better, she is pure joy to know. She’s also an avid runner and loves fitness and keeps everyone’s heart beating near her. She is the heart of our marriage and our family’s moral compass, and she is a gift given with every morning. In the lifestyle, she decides what and when and is ultimately why we’re here. And on that point, it is my incredibly sexy wife’s generous and loving spirit that has created a safe space in our relationship for us to explore our bisexuality and fantasies and discover them together. 

The Fine-Print

We are happy to share our photos here with you so that you can get to know us and see who we are and judge a connection. In so doing, however, we do not relinquish our ownership and copyright over our photos and media and we do not give the right to any individuals, companies, or institutions to use, download, or otherwise repurpose our photographic work which remains our own. In short, look and enjoy but don’t take what you didn’t create.