We are a loving, secure and committed couple… my husband and I are completely new to the community. We want to try something new. We would like to meet some good friends (with benefits) hopefully for an ongoing thing. Whether that’s dinner, drinks, campfires in the summer, game nights… I am nervous, as this is new so we would like to start slow, a soft swap and see where it goes. We are very laid back and fun… looking for the same! Safe sex (condoms only) very discreet… we have a busy family life so planning a time together is a must.