We have been together and 100% faithful since our teen years. As such, we are disease free, we don't do drugs. Now we are considering whether to spice up life a bit. We have a good thing going and don't want to risk ruining it, so baby steps. We are going at the pace of the slowest person. She said "sure, create a profile" so he did. Now she says "I don't want to see that, that site's your thing" lol. So we wait to see if we are ready to post photos and start messaging.