Update: Jan 2025

Looking for chill open-minded sexually charged people to connect.

I am currently seeing a sex therapist, learning to dance with my wife, and interested in Tantric breathing, Rope Shibari, light D/s & BD kink, and learning about the fun Masculine and Feminine energy exchange.

I am a married professional male (married for 22yrs with teenagers). I play solo, she has her boyfriend and is not looking to swing, but she will play with another couple or guy if there is a connection.

We attended Club Wicked way back in Toronto when it was on Queen West, and have enjoyed X-Club, Club M4, and Oasis and currently enjoying NYX.

Instead of identifying as Swingers, Open, or Poly ... we appear as vanilla to friends, family friends, and kid friends, and practice CNM / ENM.

We are and I am discreet, and respect boundaries.