As a single guy I'm on the site and in the LS for a few reasons:

• while "single" I'm not always flying solo. I have some single women friends who like to attend events with me, so swapping is still an option, provided there's some mutual interest all around

• some couples (more than some would imagine) like adding a single man to the mix (echoed above by various posters), - I've met some really great couples I'm still friends with through the LS

• I like hanging out with LS'ers and kinksters. While those are two different groups, there is some overlap of people across groups.

• People like my rope work. I'm happy to share, let people try it out, etc.