I 'm not a paying member yet and have virtually no ability to reply if you message. Still getting use to how this app works.  

Ask me anything. 

How I got here. A chance meeting with an amazing young women.  We had a good six months getting to know each other.  we went from aquaintances, to friends,  to trusted confidents and companions dispite her being sexually voratious we were never physically intimate. she was the most exciting, fearless and driven person I have ever met and just being with her inspired me up to look for new experiences, not accept the status quo and  explore my sexuality.

What I know about myself. I am masculine, can be both dominant and submissive, open minded, enjoy exploration, and heteroflexible. 

Who I am." if I knew then, what I know now" 
I am creative and have an active imagination but not an artist. I don't want to wait for things to happens anymore; i want to act I want to initiate. I am considered kind and caring. I am self-deprecating.  I started fighting back against complacency and have been committed to getting back in shape. Halfway to my goal right now. 

My other.  I am married but am here on my own. Not how I want but this is how it has to me. If you find that unacceptable I understand but i have no interest in your judgements. She is simply not interested so Ive chosen to explore on my own for now. 

Other stuff. I love everything to do with food pand cooking. I can be a little obsessive about it but not a snob. I drink socially.