Legit, this lifestyle is the most acceptant, fun and open group of people you’ll ever meet. But with that you’ll meet hurtful, insecure and drama inducing people. 

  Take your time, find your niche and listen to your gut. This is the place to trust your instincts.

  To the newbs, the first couple years can be hell. You’ll hear rumours and udder bullshit but please know, once you’ve established yourself and learn to be you, despite the negativity, you’ll enjoy this place. 
   Also, displacing a common topic, you ABSOLUTELY CAN enjoy and participate in this lifestyle and not be physically involved. Voyeurism, exhibition, or you just want to watch and learn, this is all part of the LifeStyle.

Also note, NOT being verified is VERY suspicious to most. It's a pic only Mods see, and not public.

NOT verified = something to hide, which is against the trust and respect you have to have in the LS.

Unsolicited dick/vag pics will get you an instant block. The LS is about consent, fucking respect that.

Undecided IS a valid choice!

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Not looking, very much monogamous and in love.

Also a Moderator on the SwingersHeaven US site, so you may see me in the Global rooms. I have no access to back end issues here on the Canadian site. I can answer questions but I cannot do anything more than you can outside of filing a support ticket. Concerns outside of questions please direct to your Canadian Moderators,