I hope you like to read. I'm not your run of the mill single guy and I totally don't look my age. So if that is a good thing, keep reading!

About my journey:

I've always been that road less travelled free and openminded adventure seeker. That made me a target for yes, bullies at school. Ahh, immigrant troubles I guess. But that only helped me become stronger and wiser. I'm European born and raised, turned Canadian as a young kid, currently rocking my single dad Euro gentleman status through openness and honesty rather than wasting time beating around the bush.

My expectations:

Not on dating sites ever, so unnatural. I always met best friends and partners out of the blue when least expected. So I'm hoping this site being geared to different clientele is more authentic from what I've read hence why I made an exception to try it, What a great blessing to have this freedom at an older mature age and finding this site, so far I've made good connections through text and when stars align I'm sure the in person meets will be real and natural. It's all about going with the flow and being in tune with yourself and others. I don't expect to meet to just have mindless sex. There has to be some chemistry and we must get along, you must smell good and be healthy, non judgy and just yourself. And like me, go with the flow.

Let's talk about sex baby:

I'm loving life outside of the city in nature, hikes get me so horny!  Bit less so now with the dog but still happens and if it gets steamy he minds his business, smart guy! Friends call me happy go lucky, yet I'm shy at times, often busy with work, kid stuff, running the house solo or traveling it's my life passion.  I try to lead a healthy responsible lifetyle with a focus on natural health and feeding off nature's offerings. Life wisdom is my thing and at this point of my adult life I feel like sexual pleasure are still a priority for maintaining overall sanity and happiness in these crazy times, but as long as there is first an authentic organic connection, without that its a no go. And of course, quality over quantity. We ain't teenager energizer bunnies by this age. Yet I'm amazed at how in my 40s sex is better than  ever and it's surprising at how much we keep learning and how vast the kinky realms actually are. Looking back I had no clue in my 20s!  Just aiming to climax and letting the girls down unknowingly. So it's so much more fulfilling and reciprocal now as I love pleasing before being pleased, discovering special spots through touch and kisses, sensuality and foreplay, teasing, and also spontaneous dogging, public sex and light bdsm if we both feel it, most importantly for any of that to materialize, that organic like minded connection has to include honest open communication and respecting boundaries. ( I wish I was taught all this as a teenager. Man oh man. Why don't they teach that in sex Ed in school?) 

And a few more ramblings:

Im looking to learn more about this hedonist lifestyle, i feel it's part of my roots having Euro blood. This has always been on my mind since my teens yet despite the most amazing long term relationships since my teens, I never had a partner who wanted to explore this lifestyle other than an odd threesome which I am super grateful for plus I wasn't mature enough. Therefore at this perfect age, I feel I'm a late bloomer and so still in my prime and crave more experience and knowledge, and maybe eventually a swing friendly life partner or a fwb partner to travel with to resorts or even clubs in Montreal or Toronto or do something new like hit up a nude beach, or maybe help me turn my recently purchased RV into a swing hangout and discuss strategies on how to turn my forest house into an underground swinger air bnb destination for vetted people?

To clarify:

Not searching for emotional serious connections for a while - need to recalibrate and refocus my energy on adult life priorities other than a serious relationship ( those have drained à lot of my energy so I'm on a long break) like being a single dad, professional career and raising my new puppy - that doodle is a handful! Did I mention in a foodie with an interest in adult board games and tantra 😉 who loves hosting?

Last but not least:

If you made it this far congrats. Means you're a good listener and I'd be happy to meet you. I promise in person I don't go off talking so much, I want to heat your stories and wisdom and if we have natural chemistry see what happens and have fun. Whether you're a kinky woman in an open relationship or a seasoned solid experienced couple who would like a new friend for fun talks and activities. Send me a message. I don't check too too often on here so be patient if I don't reply right way. Happy 2023!!!

PS as I proof read my profile I had a thought that it almost sounds like a biography. Saving it in case I become a famous sex guru or old man amateur porn star. Ahaha joking aside I'll settle for onlyfans page, I could use some extra cash! . Haha jokes! . Yes I like to joke around so if you get offended by silly and naughty humour, I might not be a good fit. But feel free to reach out. 😜