Married professional couple fairly comfortable in their own skin. We have regular adult human bodies although she has deliciously outstanding features. Have had some experience with couples and a third (male and female) with varying degrees of ups and downs (pun not intended) and have learned to pay attention to red flags. 

Slowly and cautiously entertaining looking for the right male to share with.  We are not desperate and will take time to find the right fit (Pun not intended, or maybe it is.) Alternatively may consider the right couple, however we have found there is an increase in emotional dynamics to navigate. Looking for a sane and safe individual(s) that can communicate well and understands what respectful adult playtime really means and looks like.  Not looking for an Alpha hero male with all the unappealing cliches and traits that come with Alpha hero males.  Sex is not porn therefore we are not looking for individuals in that mindset. 

Please note that while the husband is the primary architect for all this, this is not a cuckold situation in the masochistic definition. 

We are in to music, animals, reading, sports, bikes, sunning by the pool or beach, unwinding in the hot tub, puzzles, crosswords, movies, fires and cabin life. We don’t have to like all the same things but should be able to find common ground. Foreplay starts there and intensifies, especially if you like puzzles and crosswords.  Haha! Extra points for full sentences and grammar.

You should be interesting, respectful, sane, healthy, reasonable and rational, a good communicator, honest and non judgemental.  You should also be out of your 20s and 30s mindset of believing women only think about monster porn cock and that infantile and unappealing style of connection. (aka red flags).  This is not to judge anyone interested in monster porn cock, it’s just not a source of appeal here.  You don’t need to be bi or bi-curious, but you need to not be freaked out in the event that male body parts touch. You must definitely not be homophobic however.

Vetting will be slow...potentially painfully slow. We need attraction, communication and trust before advancing to the naked bits. The naked bits could be slow too. We know what we’re looking for.  Maybe it’s mouths and hands at first...or maybe it stays there...or maybe it’s more. Whatever it is, it’s respectful. Developing a friendship of some degree is appealing as we aren’t looking to conquer the city or to up stats.