My wife and I actually jumped in with both feet and went to a hotel take over. We've never been to a club, or had any type of lifestyle experience. The people we met were respective and the whole thing was a lot of fun. We got to see a lot of seriously sexy stuff. That alone got us hooked. : )
To us, a hotel takeover takes away the stress of being at a club. I know. We've never been to a club so how do we know, right? Good point, but it worked for us.