My wife and I are new to this and we are pretty shy so it's hard for us to just walk up to some random persons car or just start a random conversation with someone. We are not into anything hard-core. We're more just about the sex and friend ship. My wife will never play with out me and I will never play with out her. We like to do the whole dogging thing we go to confederation parking lot at night she also likes to walk around half naked hoping someone will start playing with her no questions asked sometimes we walk the trail at confederation park or the Bayfront trail she love when people grab at her if when we go to confederation park we usually have are interior lights on just walk up and start feeling her up or if a female same thing but with me and or her