Looking For:

We are looking for friends with benefits and to develop a friend circle of Lifestyle friendly people. This is not all about sex for us si we are not DTF. The chemistry has to be right. If it is, we are up for almost anything. We are NOT into endless emails or cyber sex. If we have some things in common and have, at least, some attraction from photos, we prefer to meet sooner than later to see if there is chemistry. We will respond if we are interested. We would love to grab a drink and just meet up to see if we get a long. We do travel a lot and usually head to Hedonism II 2 -3x a year. Great adult playground. We love to do costumes. WE are not models, but we have not had many complaints. The Mrs has recently kicked cancers ass, so that has taken a bit of a toll).

Sudbury, Barrie, even Toronto and Ottawa are not too far. We generally head to either Toronto or Ottawa once per month for a night out or Sudbury for dinner and drinks during the week every couple of weeks. Don't be shy to hi

WE DON'T ACCEPT 'OUT-OF-THE-BLUE' FRIENDS REQUESTS we must meet or exchange messages with you first. 

About Us

In general, we like:

>Getting together for drinks

>chatting and good food, or catching a game at a sports bar

>camping, ATVing, horseback riding

>We travel a lot

Some of our interests are entrepreneurship, sailing, scuba diving, flying, photography, hiking and dinner with friends (or soon to be friends!) 

Turn-ons:

We are both turned on by sexually charged atmospheres. We are looking for people who are not afraid to say what they want, but not conceded or egocentric. Honestly and trust is a big one for us. You must be able to respect our privacy and understand discretion. Part of the excitement of this part of our lives is the secret.

We are looking for couples in the lifestyle to enhance their relationship, not to define it. Sexy: VIBE/MOOD (sometimes its good; sometimes its not). We are into erotic side of things. It is just as much about the chase as it is playtime. We like lingerie, costumes (we have many), light exhibitionism, 3somes, 4somes, she loves watching him and he loves watching her, discrete sexy flirting and games while out and about. She really likes being with more than 1 man. Hopefully you have gathered from this that we don't tend to like simply meeting for play, we prefer to have a social relationship that can, if the mood is right, develop into more. 

We have been playing around with gfs and bfs, but we would like to get back to focusing on couples.

SINGLE GUYS (hint: READ below)

We are not opposed, BUT we expect (just due to sheer volume): i) you have to have read this profile entirely not just looked at her picture. ii) you have to send a clear picture of yourself, including face, in a message (hint: we are turned off by pictures of your junk...) iii) you must include a personal message not a cut-and-paste of your profile (this goes for everyone actually) If these things are not evident, we don't even pay attention. We don't mean to be, well, mean, but we have spent enough time on sites to know that simplifying the process is efficient. This aspect of our 'activities' is very specific and we know what we are looking for, rather she does!  If you are looking for a one-time, quick encounter you will be disappointed.  To include a single, it would be a longer term arrangement.  Ideally, we would be looking for someone for an ongoing arrangement with someone that understand the lifestyle.  The Mr is straight.