I'm non-smoking, drug- and disease-free [tested semi-annually for everything: all NEG in July 2023 [with an appointment to go again], married (encouraged to swing alone, discretely---we're 'open', but not 'out'), 5'10", 220±10 athletic build, dark crew-cut hair, sculpted beard, trimmed bush, with clean, smooth, thick 8" cock (6.3" girth) and all original equipment (foreskin!).

I am naturally Top-ish, only play safe (condoms are a must!). I'm back working M-F after a long COVID-19 furlough. I have both vaccinations as of 29 June 2021, and boosters in December 2021, July 2022 and September 2023. Also vaccinated vs. "monkey pox", and Hepatitis.

In general, I am looking for on-going playmate(s), but I understand that not every date is a match... Always wide-open to ladies; and, once I'm comfortable with a guy, I can get versatile, too. ;-) I am absolutely respectful of boundaries, and I expect the same treatment. I will NOT apply pressure on *anyone* to 'change the agreed menu', or make sexual advances on a male that hasn't stated he's open to it---I'm not a creep! :-) I don't like surprises that way, either! I try my best to live by the Golden Rule, and treat people the way they want to be treated. Most kinks are okay so long as we discuss and agree on them beforehand, but, don't expect too much there on the first date, okay?

Ideally, I'd like to meet you someplace public, discretely, for coffee, and see how we get along before committing to a playdate (at your place.) Your enthusiasm, mutual respect, discretion and integrity are all more important than appearance, to me; but, unlike your biological sex and gender-expression, I do consider it (although my tastes are not 'societally conventional': I don't find either emaciated women or ripped men particularly appealing). Also, cologne and perfume (including the stink of tobacco or 420), as well as heavy facial make-up, tend to be repellant to me; I much prefer simply being fresh-washed, (and some natural pheremonal scents). Regardless, condom/barrier use is a must, unless/until we get along well enough to go through a mutual quarantine together, and only then, for unprotected oral sex, only (that is a hard boundary).

For the 'curious kats': I've accepted eleven other men's M2M virginities so far, and each has thanked me for an extraordinary "first time with another man". Seven of them also wanted me to fuck them; and, I am patient, considerate, and careful: even though I'm a bit 'big', I know how to put a man at ease, and ensure his sphincter is properly prepared, before slowly and gently gliding my condomed shaft, through my foreskin, inside him---I firmly believe that if it hurts, we're doing it wrong [and I will and do stop whenever I'm asked]---in every case, nobody got hurt, and we all enjoyed ourselves the first time! ;-)

BTW, I have a single account because although my wife is aware, accepting, and supportive of my playing with others, she has a low libido, and remains practically uninterested in sex with me, or any other people! Although she is free to take other lovers as she wishes, she hasn't bothered to, in the last several years, as yet, despite my encouragement. We've been married for 26 years, open for 9.