Update:  I am recently widowed and not sure where I fit into this lifestyle at the moment.   I look forward to chats without dick pics and to get all the other question of the day out of the way, I don't squirt on the first date and will only have sex with you if I get to meet your wife.  I am not interested in single males unless I initiate the conversation.  That being said, I enjoy stimulating conversation.  I fuck like I enjoy conversation - if you don't put the effort into stimulating my brain I have little interest in having sex with you.

I am looking for a down for play with a down to earth, easy going, laid back couple to play with on a regular basis.  Conversation and connection makes sex that much better as do laughs and teasing.  I am bi-sexual although am respectful when playing with those that are not.