My self-summary (Updated August 27, 2020)

Why are we here? What are we all looking for?

Male or female, we want someone who is fun to be with, isn't high-maintenance, is exciting physically and who has at least some of the same interests.

I am married but have been physically 'alone' for decades and have had to depend on extramarital trysts to stay sane.  By my profile, you can see that I am not a youngster.  My most recent female 'friend', while not as old as I am, no longer has a need for physical closeness, but I do.

What about you? If you are reading this and have gotten this far, something in my words must have struck a sympathetic chord. So, what do we do about it?

Let's explore possibilities.  I am open to some frolicking with a female or even possibly a couple.  

I live a very complicated life and don't want to add another layer of complication. If you are a sexy, attractive woman who wants to share some fun times in the boudoir and an occasional discussion on the vicissitudes of life, perhaps we can stimulate each other, both mentally and physically.  If you have a husband who wants to participate, that's OK.  We would all have to figure out how we can satisfy each other.  I am inexperienced with men but am not uptight.

My 'swinging from the chandeliers' days are likely over but I still function reasonably well.  I am smart, funny, and try to always be respectful and understanding.  A good match would be a woman or couple who, like me, are happy to take it slow and come up with some good quality naked fun.  It is amazing how some touching and kissing and licking and slow, languorous, time between the sheets can be so therapeutic. 

Bring on the therapy!  Let's talk.  

Photos are available if we appear to click.  Because of my status, I obviously can't post photos on my profile.

Jake