We only have the free version, so can’t send messages.

We have been happily married for 10 years and have found ourselves on a new adventure. We haven’t tried this yet so we are a bit shy and nervous.

We are 420 friendly (but not a deal breaker if you aren’t, we are respectful). We are always making each other laugh. We have done a fair amount of travelling that come with their own set of stories. We like to go out for dinner (small local restaurants are a favourite), bing watch tv shows, have movie marathons, and enjoy a drink on our back deck with a fire. We have a small hobby farm and love to spend time with the animals. We do have kids, so safety is our #1 priority but will also impact our schedule and availability. We would like to meet like minded people who we can form a friendship with and maybe something more if all parties feel the same.

We are looking for a couple that is around our age (30-40).

After many conversations, we both know what we want and what we think we want. If 1 of us feels uncomfortable, it’s an automatic no from both of us.

• soft swap but open to hard swap (Safe sex always). Same room always.