My wife and I do notn pay together but she has my permission and encourages me seek out and find a people or a group to make me happy to enjoy time with.

I find it easier to communicate one on one.  Message me to get to know me better.  I find it hard to initiate conversation at the best of times.

What am I ultimately looking for?  A small group of friends that I can  enjoy being with now and then inside and outside of the bedroom.  Binaries and transgenders are welcome as I am curious.