Ya that was the point. It was a completely ridiculous response to being "rejected". Some people here don't take rejection very well. So best to just shrug your shoulders, laugh, and move on. 

An actual message or a wink? Because I'm convinced that there's alot of people that go to their match screen and just spam as many winks as they can without even reading profiles until they receive a reply.

Ya it should be fun for both, not "takin one for the team".

I'm a smartass so after receiving that I turned to the wife and apologized for being butt ugly. Hahahaha. We laughed and kept scrolling. People need to lighten up. 

Personally,  we received a "Sorry it's not a unanimous attraction here" and that was the most amazing response we've had yet. It's honest yet vague enough that neither of us could say it was one or the other. 

All great suggestions but I'll go and add another previous step. Communication. Don't groan.. I'm serious. Hahaha. Find out why she's a maybe. My wife and I have been together for over 20 years. In and out of the lifestyle the entire time. I learned she wasn't completely comfortable watching me in a full swap situation with another woman. It took her years to admit it and become comfortable. Talking openly (REALLY OPENLY) is what brought us back the last time and we've never had so much fun.

Here you were asking how to move forward and all of us keep sending you backwards. These are important steps. Couples all the time rush in too fast and put themselves in uncomfortable situations and it leaves a bad taste in their mouths.. sorta speak.. 

Good luck 

We've been told we were discriminating because we weren't interested in a couple WAY outside our age range. That was... unexpected. LOL 

We are actually going to stop responding when not interested. The angry and rude responses after I've spent the time to politely say no has been shocking.