its a strange experience all the clubs i think alot of people are new which makes it strange well your right everytime we meet a couple or when they find out your not what thier looking for thier off and away if your looking fo just sex your good but dont try to strike up a converation lol so dont sweat the big shit its the same everywhere go out have a good time and if you meet someone good if not owell you were at a sex club lol