Hello, I’m going to try this one last lime. (Updated 11/12/24)

After years of looking for the real deal life partner I have officially given up to put that energy into my deteriorating health so looking for great connections and not one nighters. Please be respectful of that I don’t need more stress. Full disclosure I am a 20 Breast cancer survivor so I have scars… lots from various complications.

Interested In:

Meeting single ladies/gentlemen and Bi-couples. If you are a solo partnered man sorry I’m just not interested at this time

Looking for:

-Ongoing friendships with no expectations besides low key fun dates and experiences.

-If something more develops organic fantastic!

-You are able to host and openminded (I am unable to host at this time because of kids)

-Someone that can communicate and is true to their word.

-D&D free, not a constant bed hopper and protection is always expected as I am very careful of fluids.

-45 minutes from Brantford (give or take) and are available at least once a week/every other week. More often if connection is there.

-You are understanding that I have a lot on my plate work, kids, home, and health, because of this you don’t mind planning a little bit ahead, but are also able to be spontaneous when time allows for me.

-Respectful Boundaries and Limits. Honesty is very important to me if I feel that somebody’s trying to manipulate me or that they are lying, I end it. I don’t play games with people and expect the same.

-You tend to be a giver and not just a taker. Hoping to take away my stress and not add to it right now.

-I am neurospicy so I don’t always recognize when people are actually interested in me aka flirting or feelers and I also love and appreciate deep conversations over superficial exchanges. That is when texting conversations generally fall flat for me not intentionally, I just I lose focus.

If we did speak in the past and I stopped messaging it’s probably, I don’t know your handle and I can’t find your message. It’s because I can’t see how many unread messages I have anymore only 99+ and they are all mixed. Also, if I’ve read your message and I haven’t replied right away, it doesn’t necessarily mean I’m not interested. It could just mean that I’m a little overwhelmed at the moment with life or on here because a lot of messages come in and I can’t hold 500 messages and conversations it’s not personal.

Please talk to me like I’m a human with feelings and not a fast food drive thru order.

Also please don’t just wink or open an album I don’t look at pics before talking I’m not a 10 and I don’t expect 10s either. Please send me a real message and if you don’t have a face photo open on your profile please attach one to your message.

I will not reply to

Messages that say, if you are in the area message me/us. (I don’t keep list of people and where they live, especially if I’ve never met them) same with asking me to first meet you at a LS club unless I am already going to be there then you are welcome to find me an introduce yourself. I don’t attend clubs much anymore, perhaps that would change with the right connection.

I don’t use k!k or email … mention these in your message I will not reply. After meeting and confirming connections, I have no issues providing my phone.